Would you ever fall for a man IF - Page 3

 definitely a big NO Edited by kun2004mun - 12 years ago

Yes!

cant say... Edited by ragvir.fan - 12 years ago

No. definitely not. But after marriage things like thi happens, especially with men

Originally posted by: -Delicious_BS-

if i say yes will you believe me? 🤔
ok so i am saying yes and i have my reasons!

a person who will put me first in his life over shadowing all his past relation wont he put someone else over me? i really dont expect my life partner to put me above all! i want him to love me unconditionally.. his sister..mother..brother family will have their place and i have that much confidence that i will make my place stronger than any other with passing time.. at one point every man puts his wife at the first place only! wife needs to earn that with time! if i meet him today and say from tomorrow only i belong to you! you should forget all the other relation!! ha!! similarly if i ask that will you ever love your husband more that your mother? whom will you put first your mom or your husband? what will be your answer? will you forget all the years your mother sacrificed her little happiness for you for the man you met just some time ago!!

every man loves his wife above all!! thats come with passing time! you are expecting way too much if you want him forget everything so soon!

exactly! spoke my mind..If i come into his life and I am his top priority over the relationships that he has had for years, I dont think I would like it much..I would like his support and wouldnt want to see him go against me for his family but his family would want the same thing: for him not to go against them for me..I would like someone who can balance between the two and not pick sides..I am important but so is his family..and I don't have any insecurities that I have to be his top priority..If I feel secure only when I am his top priority, then I dont have much faith in that relationship now do I..

Trina this is an interesting question.. Edited by Lyraa99 - 12 years ago

No. Because husband and wife relationship is like partners. This relationship does not come as given since birth. It is more often than not, two people who meet and fall in love and chose to spend 30-40 years of their life together through thick and thin. I can't spend 30-40 years of my life with someone who always gives priority to someone else and expects me to give him priority above everyone else. Love and respect is a two-way street.

but u have no choice if u really fall in love with him...since love s blind...u dont know when and y but by the time u realiz his cruility its too late u have already given ur heart to him so no choice

yes !!! 

Originally posted by: shena07

its true..it happens in most household...in my case i hold a special place in my hus heart...he loves his family and cares for them but would never hurt me for them...he respects me a lot ...i am lucky to have a life partner who knows how to keep relationships healthy

exactly relations are something which grow with each day...😳 happy for ya!!!wishing both of you a blissful life always!!!