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Posted: 15 April 2012 at 12:21pm | IP Logged

O-zone Vinita Dawra Nangia

Love is always right!

Love need not know any boundaries or norms; love can never be inappropriate unless it hurts another or dishonours your commitment to someone

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    THERE are two kinds of romantic love — one that makes homes, another that breaks them! The first is the result of the natural nesting instinct of all living beings. You grow up and find your feet; then you look for someone to share your life with. The natural urge for procreation sharpens senses, and the hunting instinct takes over as one looks for the right mate to have children and share our future with. You have waited for the right time and taken an informed decision to enter the next phase of life. Appropriate love.
    Then there is love that breaks moulds and upsets settled patterns. Love that doesn't follow societal norms and is considered inappropriate — for instance, extramarital love. A happily married person is as vulnerable to indulge in an affair on the side as one who is unhappy and needs a distraction. A wellsettled, happy life that doesn't offer too many challenges leaves the mind free to be seduced by unexplored vistas. When the mind doesn't challenge itself, nor are you engaged in something that stretches your mental boundaries, romance is an attractive option to fill the gaps.
    On the other hand, someone who is unhappy with his or her personal life and relationships is also ripe prey for an attentive and sympathetic soul. Stuck in an unhappy relationship, he or she is happy to have a distraction that helps soothe the jagged edges of a stressful marriage and brings in moments of muchneeded happiness and peace. Inappropriate love!
    What would you do if in your vulnerable moment you fell in love with a married man or woman? Or, if years later, you realized the man or woman you are married to is inappropriate for you?
    "If someone had warned me about him 12 years ago, I would never have married Ranjan,"confessed Radha in one of those girly heart-to-hearts. "He is just so unsuitable for me!"
    I am sure if someone were to ask Ranjan, he may have the same sentiment to express about his wife of 12 years.
    Twelve years is a rather long time for a couple not to realise their 'inappropriateness' for each other. But I wonder how Radha would have responded if someone had pointed out their unsuitability while they were still in the first flush of love. Undoubtedly she wouldn't have taken it positively. Did love iron over the 'inappropriateness' initially and then as it evaporated, allowed cracks in the relationship to show up?
    What would you do if you found yourself in love with an 'inappropriate' person? Who is 'inappropriate' or rather, who decides who is appropriate? In Kuch To Log Kahenge, a popular serial on Sony TV, surgeon Dr Ashutosh and his junior by 22 years, Dr Nidhi are in love. Society frowns upon the age difference and they promise to try and forget each other. Is then a yawning age gap inappropriate? In another serial, Kya Hua Tera Wada, a female boss sets out to win back her former lover, now her junior and a married man. Is a boss-subordinate relationship inappropriate? Tom Cruise is 5'7" tall while former wife Nicole Kidman was 5'10", and always chose to wear heels, a point of discord between them. Is a taller female partner inappropriate?
    Smruthi, 28, a professor in Kannada was killed by her brother last month for marrying a Dalit. Is then, loving someone beyond your caste inappropriate? How about a very rich girl marrying a very poor guy, or an educated person falling for an unlettered one? Is that inappropriate?
    How irreconcilable all the above differences are depends solely on the comfort level of the partners. However, when it comes to matters that involve the well-being of others, the decision of the appropriateness of a relationship goes beyond the concerned couple. For instance an extramarital affair, which puts at stake the happiness of others and breaks faith. Or someone in a disciplinary, authoritarian position involved with an underage ward. Or say, an incestuous relationship. To my mind these are the three possibilities where love can be inconvenient and inappropriate…
    Can you add any others?

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Posted: 15 April 2012 at 3:21pm | IP Logged
TANU

where you talking abt this song????



ISKEY lyrics ROFL ROFL

jiskey jaaney sey bomb phattey???? atom bomb?? ROFL ho jaye visphot ROFL W*F ROFL ROFL

ashiqon mein jiska tittle titanic Stern Smile

aashiq mera jhalla (Awww LOL)

isko meri geometry bhi dikhayi koi Stern Smile Stern Smile Seriously???? ROFL ROFL this more graphic than munni ROFL

jisko sanam maankey shab bharr marey, woh kamina subha hotey phurr ho gaya Stern Smile ROFL

i can imagine pariniti in this LOL

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Posted: 15 April 2012 at 3:25pm | IP Logged
ok this is kinda catchy tough LOL one can do ghaty dance on this. i am tapping my foot listening to this at 3 bajey subhey key ROFL


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Posted: 15 April 2012 at 3:42pm | IP Logged
before to go to sleep (@3.04 am)

Am obsessed with this song Day Dreaming i like ayushman in this song a lot. i mean i am used to see him as a jester, so liked this simple romantic guyish avatar LOL he and Yami look good together LOL

Mahiya na aya mera, Mahiya na aya Day Dreaming
Rajhna na aya mera, Mahiya na aya Day Dreaming

Tu bhi aa sabko chod key (guitar in the bg Day Dreaming)
Aankhiyaan jo anju rul de Day Dreaming


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@Tanu..its a good article, but like all articles these days, it seems to meander on and not really get to the point.

@Debo.. wah kya gaane hai LOL I mean WTH is the lyrics LOL
Maybe that song is an item number or somethingConfused
 
Waise Ayushman and Yami do look nice and couple-y :) I hope the movie is good!It has an unusual theme..

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Posted: 15 April 2012 at 9:31pm | IP Logged
Happy Monday morning to u all LOL
 
I made a post and PM'd most of u.. no no I didnt PM u Tanu LOL
 
Waise I was looking at my buddy list, I dont recognise so many in the list...so many names changed??? Confused I dont even know who to PM and who not to Confused
 
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Wrote it in nikki's post on MJHT forum
 
MJHT ended on 20th November 2010 and here we are mid-april 2012 and still missing MJHT, that explains it all :)
 
MJHT will always be the most special show for me not only because it was the first time I developed interest in a TV show amidst my busy schedule (then) but also the show because of which I joined this forum, made lots of friends (who have remained friends !) , it has made me do crazy unspeakable things LOL If I were a character in a TV show, the fans would've cried foul and blasted the CVs for destroying the character LOL Well thats what truly happened, a deviation from the normal "me" and I loved it LOL
I can't believe even now the extend to which we went to get Nupur back LOL and am so happy she did come back because its my fairy tale and I wanted a perfect ending for it..and am glad we did get it :)
 
I have moved on with life, yes, but I've also left a part of my heart behind with MJHT..and I'm quite sure there is no show I'll ever feel this kind of connection with because I've gone way past that stage and this was an abberation, albeit of the beautiful kind :)


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Posted: 15 April 2012 at 9:53pm | IP Logged
ok can't i live my life the way i want to live in my house...

ignore that subha subha i had a blasting fight

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Posted: 15 April 2012 at 9:59pm | IP Logged
Good Morning everyone :)


@Divz... You are right even though we have moved on, MJHT still will have a soft spot in my heart :)

@Tanu: Kya hua... why the fight...


@Debo ... i lobe the vicky donor wala song too...


On the completely different note... my friends seem to be dropping babies... i mean just the last week 3 of my friends had their second child...:) :)

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