Married Relationships !!! | Saath Nibhaana Saathiya

navyab

@navyab

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Posted: 12 years ago

Gopi & Ahem had gone thru difficult times due to health issues as Rashi & Jigar are going thru now ...but the difference in both the couples is so evident ...

Rashi on hearing Jigar coming into the room, the 1st thing she did was set her hair & look away as she did not know how she was looking...Rashi knows that Jigar is attracted to her physically & she consciously did not want Jigar to look at her when she was not presentable...on the other hand Gopi was comfortable of being around Ahem in any situation. Whenever she was hurt or cried herself out with him, she never had any inhibitions of her husband seeing her as she was !!!

This incident symbolically shows the kind of relationship which exists between couples. Jigar does not know the actual Rashi behind her face while Ahem knows each & everything about his wife, her feelings, her reactions to the situations, what she does, how she reacts, what she likes ...what gets her to smile & what troubles her !!! In a married life a husband & wife go thru many situations but allowing each other to come closer to know & understand each other without any inhibitions shows how much they love & trust each other !!!

Jigar after consoling Rashi, left her saying he will comeback...not that it is wrong ...could be a genuine reason but when you look at Ahem taking care of Gopi even when he could not stand her...he never ever left her alone. He would always be there taking care of her & only would leave when he knew she was fine or when he knew she would handle herself !!!

These could be very simple things but defines the dynamics of a couple in relationship !!!

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shruti aggarwal

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Posted: 12 years ago

Great post Navya.⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

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yhm_craze

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Posted: 12 years ago

awesome post!👏⭐️...nothin to add you said it all!and to think gohem hardly even talk to each other!

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Justlikethat1

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Posted: 12 years ago

Aww Navya.. Such a wonderful post with so much meaning.. Deep meaning about what married relations actually are.. Hats off👏👏⭐️

Each and every word of yours is true.. That is the difference between these two couples.. Rashi and Jigar are physically attracted or atleast Jigar is.. And Rashi knows she can use him because of that. Both have no other deeper relationship than that. Not even friendship for good friends know and understand each other.. These two do not.. They do not even know each others aspirations and wishes in life..

But Ahem and Gopi are very different. Gopi always considered Ahem her husband and though Ahem said he did not see Gopi as his wife, his heart always led him to her when she was in pain. He understood her words that were voiced and those that remained unsaid. He sees the inner beauty of his wife and the outside does not matter if she can be happy.

Married life works when you work for it.. Rashi and Jigar are the most careless when it comes to their relationship. Both do not invest the effort or time needed for both have their own set of goals that they want to achieve.

A relation that ticks only on attraction will fizzle out and that is exactly what we are seeing with Rashi and Jigar..

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varshu27

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Posted: 12 years ago

wonderful post navya...the difference between gohem and raji is glaringly obvious...one is real while the other is fake...

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_Precious_

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Posted: 12 years ago

Wonderful analysis Navya. I absolutely agree with you. This dynamics between Gohem makes them a special couple.

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FlowerHater

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Posted: 12 years ago

clap clap clap!!!! awesome analysis!!

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Rope_of_Hope

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Posted: 12 years ago

hey..!amazing navya..!i thought today no journey of being together..!because there is no gohem scene in todays episode...!i felt empty today..eventhough your post filled the emptiness in my heart...!really gohem are the perfect couple..!i love them so much...!thankyou very much..!😃😃
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sheela

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Posted: 12 years ago

nice post well defined relation of husband wife gohem are compatible than raji ahem's nature is totally opposite from gopi he is stubborn and a bit rude at times he is a man of his own world by slowly he is changing and gopi she is a naive and innocent kind of a girl who never had such ambitions in her life except a loving husband and having a happy married life but ahem had so many goals in his life to achieve for him nothing was important than his work and mom of course but now gopi is in one of his biggest priorities his life is incomplete without her gohem are made for each othere dnt mind raji fans but raji as of now dnt even deserve to be call raji b'coz there is no genuineness in rashi as a wife she wants only money and position from her husband no love no trust at all

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doc4ever

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Posted: 12 years ago

Lovely interpretation of the difference between a real marriage than a fake one!👏 Gohem have built their relationship from the ground up whereas Raji have only built their relationship based on superficiality. Gohem will always be appreciated fr the little efforts they have made to stay together to keep the family happy but now I feel it's time they stay together to keep each other happy!

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