Posted: 03 April 2012 at 11:28pm | IP Logged
Amit.. LOL m kinda drowsy and incoherent.. will address couple of yer questions and doubts..
Well Viren was being sarcastic.. the thing is he asked Virat the same thing yest.. and Virat went on a tangent imagining Manvi and sayin them wrt maya.. Viren today mockingly repeated it in front of everyone for Virat's benefit.. coz most ppl wld catch the simple corelation to manvi.. and those connotations.. Dadaji said it loud.. there is no doubt in viren's mind maya isnt like that.. he just wanted Virat to HEAR IT.. loud and clear that all he said he likes in the girl is MANVI not maya.. he was basically giving an orientation to the misplaced emotions of virat n in some ways he is being assertive coz he can see thro Virat's feelings.. doesnt take rocket science really
but my point is.. in the bargain Viren was totally unfair to maya.. well no matter how she is.. she hasn't done anything to him or his family to be made to sit in that spot.. Viren has never been shown to be casual towards any body's feelings and has been the most objective person.. he is in full rights to think Manvi is a better match.. but why at the cost of judging another person and being unreasonable to her.. like jeevika asked what proof.. a hotel bil.. isnt he the same guy who gulped down the unsavory kheer his wife dished out the first day to save face.. isnt he the same guy who gets pizza for his bro when he is made to skip meals.. so lets not conveniently use self righteousness .. viren aint no clean slate either..
and thats what makes him real.. yes he has an annoying irk.. true but he was clearly snarky.. i wld take offense in maya's place if i was suddenly compared to some other person.. anyone at all..n given a certification on tht aspect..
secondly i find dadaji's question itself flawed.. he asked jeevika to pick between love n honor/ duty.. even back then i thought why do they hav to be exclusive.. on most ocassions they r inclusive.. in rare cases when they r not.. u can stand and make tall claims of bending for honor but it takes spine to do that.. when time comes we'll see what honor Jeevika stands for..
she had a hard time living thro telling manu to leave the house itself.. the acid test is yet to come.. thats my irk.. why believe ppl who make tall claims over people who are starkly honest n reasonable but may not sound politically correct.. doest the latter person get a benefit also..
if anything maya was dang clear.. and honest.. n very reasonable.. in her ans.. heck who knows wat happens n what you have to choose.. only time can tell how u react.. if we knew all our reactions.. things would be so much easier.. in today's time divorces are increasing.. people cheatin on their partners is more frequent.. how can you take a stand for someone else.. JV was a totally diff scenario.. they discovered each other thro the courtship n still are discovering each other.. the important thing here is there is an incentive.. they r both invested to some extent.. which is clearly lacking in Virat maya.. n that is what Viren is tryin to pick on.. but i dont concur on his method right now.. tomorrow when he finds out manvi has cancer.. lets see how he reacts and takes it..
its a good way of teaching people we can stand and make claims.. but LIFE and its unpredictability is far above our little hypothetical plans and agenda.. and one has to adjust to the best option once the situation presents itself.. thats realistic..