Posted: 01 April 2012 at 1:26pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Ania
Originally posted by sweety90
I'm feeling very sorry for u, and i hav been experienced similar situations in my life.
I dont know about others comments but I would suggest u to talk to him but in ur mind dont keep expectations. It will help u to not forget him as if u try to forget him u will remember him more and more but if u talk to him no matter wat, sumtimes it happens that you want to move on urself widout even thinking to move on u'll automatically move on wid passing days even if u talking to him.
Meri suggestions yeh hae apke liye k ap us se baat karo per sirf yeh pata karne k liye ke akhir problem hae kia aur kon jhoot bol raha hae that girl or ur love. jst figure out.
even if it is ur love, give him a chance last and final chance bcz i know its not easy to forget him as ur deeply in love wid him, i know u can trust him still now if he accepted he is at fault. so give him chance and try to find out his real character and about his marriage.
and during all that time show him some love but make sure u are not expecting frm him. bcz u are only dere to find out abt him.
Once u know how much he is in love wid u and abt his fake marriage stuff, it will be easier for u to move on or maybe there is no marriage and u find ur love back. have patience. dont delete him again make up wid him so u can find out abt him and good thing is that hes far right now so he can't harm u physically as u said he wnted to use u and all so he can't and till that time u can find out abt his character by talking to him. and if hes saying he loves u ask him for his password of his yahoo facebook and any acount u talk to him or even skype. watever way u talk to him it will help u figure out abt his life activities.
Good Luck need more help u can message me
Thankyou so muchh..
yeah...when i try to forget him i rememer him more...
and its really hard to trust me on some1 on ill never trust on any1 now... i just cant..
n i deleted him since 1 weak so mein usko kiya msg karo k im sorry i deleted u??wht should i write in msg??
First of all please dont cry for someone who doesnt care for ur tears.
no dont ever do that mistake for not trusting on anyone cuz that guy is not so important that u can stop trusting others. u shd trust others bcz the more u trust the more u will know whom to trust.
hmmm yes you do not need to love him or trust him again, but u hav to show him that u are trusting him so u can find out what he is upto and if he is really married with this girl. and not jst be wid this guy but also be friendly with this girl who is saying shes married to him. so u can find out proofs, once u are friends with this girl u can ask for marriage photos or wedding video so u can see if she is really married and u can figure out frm her behavior and words that how she talks and if she really married to ur love.
ab ap use add karo, if u can phone him den call him and say u need to talk to him something important bcz to any person if u say u wana talk abt sumthing imp they get intrested to know the matter and once u give this attitude dey will try to find out wat is it?? so message him or jst call him and say wen u hav time give me a call or in message say if u hav time then reply and let me know bcz i need to talk to u something important. jst for now say that.
to get his response first. and this is how u can add him.
then as he comes or call u back then u can proceed like im asking last time abt this girl if u are married so dis is how hes gona start convo wid u and no matter how much ur in anger or hurt show him that u are okay with it and u forgave him and u wana forget wat happened. so as he start saying he loves u and all and show him love and den try to get his passwords and during that time be firends wid this girl also and say ur happy for her that shes married to him even if she talks to him u pretend as u dont care infront of this girl and to this guy if he is saying hes not married and loving u so u also shw same thing that ur in love and keep continue it to find a key about him. im sure during this time u will find a lot abt him and his lies and this girl as well.
and u wont hav to forget him, u'll feel good and maybe wid time u wana move on urself once u know everyting about him will be easier for u. jst make sure if hes married or not and abt this girl that is very important. then everyting comes later.
Hope ur gettin it. All the best and no crying again be happy its ur mission do it :)