Sidhi ans shilpa

In the Thursdays episode Kunal hugged Shilpa and in yesterdays episode he hugged Sidhi
The similarity in the situation is both were upset.
Shilpa for loosing her love and sidhi for loosing the right to fight the case
both wanted reassurance  and care, which Kunal gave them amply
both felt better in the arms of Kunal
So my question is and I know people are going to kill me for this what is the difference from Kunal's point of view  in the hug he gave to shipla and Hug to sidhi.
In case of Shilpa , he went even further and kissed her , i wish he would have kissed Sidhi as well
He was trying to console both of them, he was trying to help them and support them.
I  know shilpa is like his sister and obviously could not see her in pain and all that
but that goes for sidhi, he could not see her crying and hugged her to console
So where in the love factor??
If it was Shipla, raveena, seema or even richa(before the case) in place of Sidhi he would have done the same thing..since he is so good,,,
so how  different , special his feeling for Sidhi are , how can we guess from this scene??.

I guess the difference is before hugging Shilpa, Raveena, Seema...he doesnt think that there is anything romantically between these ladies and him and Shilpa and Seema are like his sister and Raveena is infact his sister...and before the case Richa(but after his marriage to Sidhi)...he wouldnt be hesistated to hug her because he is not scared that he would get physically attracted to her and would hug like a friend to console without the fear of his emotions... Edited by Simi. - 12 years ago

I guess the difference is the duration is the hug. When he hugs others, it's only for few seconds, but when he hugs Siddhi, the duration of the hug is longer then after the hug their is awkwardness between them which he doesn't feel with others. The awkwardness is also there because of his romantic feeling for her.

hi Edited by norzar - 12 years ago

Originally posted by: norzar

hi

the difference is there for sure. with shilpa its brotherly feeling, no chance of any other feeling over powering him. 

while for siddhi, even though he hasnt realised his love for siddhi, he knows something inside him gets restless and he gets weak., he is unable to control his emotions etc, rem in the c night his own emotions for siddhi over powered everything else and sinal went all the way, next day he even got angry at himself that how couldnt he control his emotions, he was stunned and also he asked himself before the div scene that kya hoga tha mujhe(something like that)

kunal has this certain fear when he gets close to siddhi, bec he knows it can lead to alot more

though i must say yesterday when kunal hugged siddhi he didint look uncomfy as such, though when he looked at siddhi while she was sleeping we could see he was was so affected by the entire thing. the bg song was from kunal's pov 

norzar