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Posted: 02 March 2013 at 12:39am | IP Logged
For it do Court marriage, Parents will be with you after a year dont worry. 
It happens in Indian life, mainly in middle class family. 
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Posted: 04 March 2013 at 12:29am | IP Logged
but they dont want me to marry any1 apart from my cast and thats really disgusting i mean i am not forcing them but still atleast they should meet the guy or family before taking any decision to be honest they are really heartless they really dont love me they love there name and status i m dying from 2months and they behave like they cant see whats happening to me to be honest they dont want to see how miserable i am feeling because it dsnt matter to them and it really killing me

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Posted: 04 March 2013 at 10:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by anonymous28

but they dont want me to marry any1 apart from my cast and thats really disgusting i mean i am not forcing them but still atleast they should meet the guy or family before taking any decision to be honest they are really heartless they really dont love me they love there name and status i m dying from 2months and they behave like they cant see whats happening to me to be honest they dont want to see how miserable i am feeling because it dsnt matter to them and it really killing me
i think in a way you know what you want to do but you dont have guts to do it ... no one can tell you what to do ... i dont know you personally so only thing ill say is that whatever decision you will make today will have effects on rest of your life ...

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Posted: 08 March 2013 at 10:41am | IP Logged
May b your parents r scared because he is not done with his studies. When a boy asks for a girl's hand, he is putting his commitment forward. Before marriage the best criteria for one's commitment level is to see where they stand in studies.
If u have decided to live with this person then don't backdown . Give your relation some time. This is not "now or never" kinda situation. This is a life long journey u r talking about. Give u'r parents some time to cool down and give your partner time to complete his studies. If he really wants u then he will complete his degree no matter what.
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                     It appears to be a complicated matters. Contact and
                     take advice of your close relations in this regards. don't
                     be hasty. Consider all the pros and cons as it is a
                     matter once taken in whole life.
                     Dont' you have any brother or sister in family? What your
                     father is doing? The boy is in business with his father?
                      
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Posted: 11 March 2013 at 3:00pm | IP Logged
Do you know why they oppose to your relationship? Have they met? Can't you talk to your parents and ask them to give him a chance and meet him once before they decide what they think of him?

It sounds like they're more concerned about you having had a boyfriend without telling them and him not having a proper education than who he actually is? Or am I wrong?
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Posted: 15 March 2013 at 7:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by GoldenPanda.

Do you know why they oppose to your relationship? Have they met? Can't you talk to your parents and ask them to give him a chance and meet him once before they decide what they think of him?

It sounds like they're more concerned about you having had a boyfriend without telling them and him not having a proper education than who he actually is? Or am I wrong?

ya they have met them before and they found him the best guy when they dint knew we were dating and when they came to know we are dating he became a bad boy all of a sudden just because he is Gujarati that is such a sick reason and my boy friend has done his proper studies 


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