Posted: 12 November 2012 at 9:05am | IP Logged
dear i have the same situation i love a girl so much we are in love since last four year we did share all the things of life plan well for future both wana to get marriage to each other. from day one when we decided for marriage girl said i can't go against of my parents if they allow me with happiness then i will do so bt she love so much me. whenever i told her that my parents asking me for marriage she start crying. even i don't wana to marry any of else except her then. this attitude give more energy to stay with her. i did convince my parents they agree without any efforts especially my mom she told me i am happy in your happiness nothing whatever girl does not matter then i feel this true parents. then after never ask me for marriage. what now my girl frind was pursuing b.ed her exam was going on she told me i shall talk to my parents after exam. bt many time she told me plz take my hand from my parents u. one day some one give suggestion to talk to her family i did call to her mother told her the story as we have ..she ask my everything very interestingly at the she did not reply any and cut the phone... i don't konw what happen then after my girl friend did not call me r any contact bt i did start crying all the day night tear in the eye it looks like life has got end here leave the food, i used only drinking water i one day she contact me in someway and told me i am in your town away form my home almost 40 km i will pass your town by train whenever she back to her home she pass through my town . she told me at 1:41pm the train in which she has come reach at 5:30pm
i did wait her even she did not ask me to come not i have told her . i did wait for train i start searching in the train finally i did find her hardly talk her 20 minute she again told me i cant go against parents means court marriage r anything else ..this is now totally breathless time for me i was get anger.. i was crying in the train people r looking me y the boy is crying ..
we have no cast war no education both has same cast sharma she is graduate and b.ed
and i have mba..degree and doing job in mnc
AS all this i come to know that she love me no doubt ... i respect her love and i love her too
now question is one...
I love her i can leave any thing which try to snatch my love bcoz love make me hunger-less sleepless sad seem to me life has no mean ... it means to maintain these thing need my love so
Dear this is for u..regarding your problem
u love ur parents no doubt at the same time u do't want to leave your love first thing no thing in case of love get equal weightage.. frist of all try to convince your parents look for good time when they are good mood & ask do u love me be frankly u wana my happiness so plz get me marry to your BF i would be more happy with him
2nd thing if your parents are not understanding your problem they looking for their own reputation not your happiness so why you r.. love is not meant for sacrifice first love to some then scarify it
u will scarify you self is your bf will tolerate this why he will say u will compromise with ur heart for the sake of your parents your boy friend will get victim of this without any reason..
3rd thing we have to choose life partner once in the life not every two r three year i don't know your age say ur 24 and your parents 45 /50 avg life of man 60 year then after that they can leave the world any time they will with u for 15/10 yrs... and u have stay with your partner for 36 year. for their 10/15 years u will spoil your 36year how will this is good decision
never say die get up try fight till your last breath why compromise if u love him fight ur parents convince them show his quality and always criticize the partner which are chose by parents
4th thing if u can never give up for ur love u have no right to love and play with boys lives
i can understand ur pain bt a girl can never understand the pain of boy if he is true lover
i can never think about any body else... she was my love is will...
i can't alive without her i know it 'very well she is doing scarify her love to sake her parents and doing engagement with their choice i am put away from her residence almost 50 km no source to get information about her she has done compromise with the heart think that thing which i can never get why shall make efforts ... i will convince her parents till my last breath beg them with hanging cloth put my head in their foot use all my efforts if all of this they shall not agree they will lose their daughter ... i am already write i cant live without her
both live will get end ...
i think love is not meant for scarify so why we will give up it for others who r not understanding us
girls are requested plz don't love if u r not get stand even boy are proposing u ...