Siddhi ki khamoshi - Page 3

hi Edited by norzar - 12 years ago

Uff Pooja, I had thought I would not get into this debate anymore, but what to do? Aadat se majboor 😆

I agree with all you guys have been saying. The crux of the matter is that Siddhi and Kunal are two completely different people and this complementarity (if that is a word😆) is what draws them to each other and makes their relationship solid.

Siddhi is a silent worker. She believes in doing what needs to be done, what is right and not talking much about it. Think of how she's handled Vikram after Raveena's suicide attempt. Even Kunal accepted "Aakhir tumne Vikram ko mana hi liya." As she told Raj she was probably thinking she can handle this situation her way and things will resolve, but they have gotten worse. So hopefully now she will turn around and start talking😉 But spare a thought for our dear heroine! She bleeds too😭 Just because Siddhi doesn't get drunk and shout when she is upset, just cries quietly doesn't mean she is not hurting. When did quietly crying and dealing with your sorrow become such a bad thing? There was a time it used to be a dignified quality in a person. I mean Kunal's getting drunk and one-sided shouting is not helping their situation much either, so why is everyone blaming Siddhi? But I do sincerely hope that her days of muteness are over because as Raj said "Tere chup rehne se bhi kya hua." Now is the time for her to change herself a little. And in times of crisis we all do.

On the other hand Kunal😳 Another post on this forum regarding when Kunal fell in love with Siddhi and Raj's dialogue that now they have to sort their relationship out themselves made me realize one thing.  Kunal doesn't consciously yet realize that he loves Siddhi. He has this innate need for her, almost like a craving, but his conscious mind doesn't recognize it yet. I remember thinking after watching that love scene that Kunal sounded just a trifle selfish in all he was saying - I bow before you because me and my family need you. His dialogues the next day that I want to set you free because I cannot make you happy stem as much from guilt as from love. So I want him to take his time and realize that he loves this woman. She is more than a need, she is a want. I thought that scene where Siddhi watches Raveena's wedding vows and realizes that Kunal has been a true husband to her was beautiful and I wondered why they didn't show Kunal realizing the same. I think now is the time he needs to do that - perhaps during Shilpa's wedding as someone else on his forum already suggested. He has to realize that she is his wife in the real sense of the word, way beyond familial responsibilities alone. The day he does that, I wish he grabs her hand and says to her, "Main tumhare saath apni zindagi bitana chahtha hoon, isliye nahin kyunki tumhare bina yeh ghar nahin chalega. Isliye nahin kyunki main tumhe miss karungi. Isliye kyunki tum meri patni ho aur main tumse pyar karta hoon."

annie, sorry to have pulled you in here..but see what makes it intersting is that both have faluts and both are right as well..so just bashing one person is not right !!!!😉 Edited by poshah - 12 years ago

the breaking news is that a few people on IF have spend their respective sunday morning, afternoon and evening debating on kunal/siddhi..three of them agree that neither is fully right.

Edited by pinkeye - 12 years ago

Touche to both your comments. I am not bashing either character also. I am trying to understand and explain both sides. And yes, sadly on a Sunday evening!😆