Posted: 18 February 2012 at 8:39pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Soaps1
Sorry I disagree that Jhanvi will be a fair weather wife, if that was the case she would have run away long time back ... Even the topic maker agrees that what viraj said was only what he wanted her to hear ... he has been manupilating things since the day he saw her ... Viraj may have loved his family ... but he claims to love jhanvi too ... but what kind of love is it that makes him torture her? And how can we be sure his love for his parents was not of same kind as well? Jhnvi has gone through so much and if she decides to run away calling her a fair weather wife would be totally unfair!!! A wife's job is to support a husband but it is not to get tortured in the name of love, it is not to put up with a person that has done so much to harm your family
Thanks for the input.
@ Bold: his insecurity, his past experience, he thinks that only by torturing and scaring her he can control her...as we have seen in one of the earlier episode "agar wo mujse daregi nahi to mujse pyar kese karegi?? nahi...darana to parega...magar wo darti nahi hai fir bhi mujse pyar kese karti hai.." those questions..he is unable to answer those..he thinks that he can make her love him only if she is under his control, by means of torture, discpline etc.. *well that is his own way of approaching and making her love him, again we don't know about his past..so we are clueless why he blvs that!*
we can be sure about his love to his parents because when Dobriyal's adopted him, he needed care he was orphan he was left by his mum...and any NORMAL person would be the same...seeks for love and when they get it they cherrish it..(no offence to u..please don't take it personally, but did u see the previous episodes where they talk about Viraj's mental state? dadi and Dr. Komolika's convo?) i hope u have seen it..
@BI: agreed she deserve to be happy..any married woman has that right to be happy we all have that dream from the day we starts growing from girl to teenager.. and no she is not suppose to get tortured. But it's not His fault that he is like this. His circumstances and his illness is making him do all that..*no one desire to become OCPD patient..all wants to live a happy normal married life..but how many of us gets it?? even normal ppl do beat up their wives..are padhe likhe log kese treat karte hai pata hai??? they beat them to wall...frikin to the point that wife almost get hemrage..pardon my spelling..anyhow...i am not justifying his torture..but i want to point out the point that u missed.* about harming her family, she is not aware of it yet..and lets see how she reacts to it when she comes across it.