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Posted: 09 February 2012 at 8:18pm | IP Logged
When a wife becomes a mother, the husband automatically becomes second priority.
So a man thinks. He feels that she always thinks about the children and I am just a dining table or some piece of furniture to sit when tired.
Thus a man takes out his frustrations when opportunities arise.

Lucky may have pent up frustrations.
Sweety asking him to diet compulsorily though for his own good.
Sweety always talking about children, their homework, their grades etc.
Never taking initiative in becoming romantic for some time atleast leaving the children out of her head for a while.


So many imagined and real frustrations.Wink

Generally taking him for granted.


Edited by rightnow - 09 February 2012 at 8:18pm

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Posted: 09 February 2012 at 11:57pm | IP Logged
And Lucky may be having inferiority complex which makes him insecure.


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Posted: 10 February 2012 at 1:02am | IP Logged
Husband and wife relationship is always a delicate one which needs lots of understanding from both sides. It is not an easy one.

Family life, children, responsibilities all put a lot of strain. But that is life.

In this case, Lucky has been insensitive and adamant and thinks only he is right. And the wife leaves him for a while. Meanwhile, the children get upset and they show their anger and frustration either by neglecting their studies or becoming aggressive and morose by turns.

The parents must either get divorce or continue in the relationship without complaining much.

Many somehow adjust and live with each other for other reasons than love. One needs guts to walk away from the marriage. Children will understand.

Some will stay together until children grow up and then file for divorce.



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Posted: 10 February 2012 at 1:09am | IP Logged
Hey .. For some people it's true..
 
But I will try give u the other side of the picture.. A husband also becomes a father .. And for him also the prioroty should change.. Like Lucky ji said in few epis back, he thought he loves Sweety ji the MOST.. But he realized he loved kids the most.. And Sweety doesnt need to feel jealous.. Cuz parents wil always put their kids before anyone else.. No matter what.. Hence, the priority changes for both.. Smile
 
I remember the KWK of SRK and Kajol where SRK gave one example regarding his love for Gauri and his kids.. He said 'If my relative is standing in the middle of the road and a vegicle comes, I will shout n tell him to move.. If my wife is standing in the middle of the road and a truck comes, I will go push her and save her life.. If my kids are standing there and a vehicle comes, I will go and tell the car to stop'.. Smile That was the best explanation I ever heard Big smile
 
Anyways, now coming to the second part, even wives feel the same way once kid is born.. She gets all the attention ever since she gets married, and once baby is born, that baby becomes the apple of everyone's eye.. Tongue.. She also sometimes goes through the same inferiority complex.. But later on they of course move on.. Cuz of course, nothing is greater than children..
 
Having said that, I also think, couple shouldnt give up their personal lives/their hobbies/wish completely once they are parents.. They should have time for each other once the kid becomes toddler.. Or they should go for date at least once a month.. Cuz after all, it's them who have to be with each other till death.. Kids will marry and form their own families Tongue..
 
And if you wanna say that Lucky's frustration in last few episodes is cuz of inferiority complex, then I dont think so.. he is behaving like MCP.. not love-starved husband ! LOL.. And I agree Sweety ji should act more like a wife sometimes and not jz a Mother Smile

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Posted: 10 February 2012 at 1:13am | IP Logged
Originally posted by rightnow

Husband and wife relationship is always a delicate one which needs lots of understanding from both sides. It is not an easy one.

Family life, children, responsibilities all put a lot of strain. But that is life.

In this case, Lucky has been insensitive and adamant and thinks only he is right. And the wife leaves him for a while. Meanwhile, the children get upset and they show their anger and frustration either by neglecting their studies or becoming aggressive and morose by turns.

The parents must either get divorce or continue in the relationship without complaining much.

Many somehow adjust and live with each other for other reasons than love. One needs guts to walk away from the marriage. Children will understand.

Some will stay together until children grow up and then file for divorce.

 
I guess more than Sweety ji, the bold things applies to Shweta Tongue M SO proud of her for considering all these points before separating from Raja Smile She is a great mom indeed.. Suffered SO much for her kid Smile And like u said, Palak understood Smile

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