Posted: 10 February 2012 at 1:09am | IP Logged
Hey .. For some people it's true..
But I will try give u the other side of the picture.. A husband also becomes a father .. And for him also the prioroty should change.. Like Lucky ji said in few epis back, he thought he loves Sweety ji the MOST.. But he realized he loved kids the most.. And Sweety doesnt need to feel jealous.. Cuz parents wil always put their kids before anyone else.. No matter what.. Hence, the priority changes for both..
I remember the KWK of SRK and Kajol where SRK gave one example regarding his love for Gauri and his kids.. He said 'If my relative is standing in the middle of the road and a vegicle comes, I will shout n tell him to move.. If my wife is standing in the middle of the road and a truck comes, I will go push her and save her life.. If my kids are standing there and a vehicle comes, I will go and tell the car to stop'..
That was the best explanation I ever heard
Anyways, now coming to the second part, even wives feel the same way once kid is born.. She gets all the attention ever since she gets married, and once baby is born, that baby becomes the apple of everyone's eye..
.. She also sometimes goes through the same inferiority complex.. But later on they of course move on.. Cuz of course, nothing is greater than children..
Having said that, I also think, couple shouldnt give up their personal lives/their hobbies/wish completely once they are parents.. They should have time for each other once the kid becomes toddler.. Or they should go for date at least once a month.. Cuz after all, it's them who have to be with each other till death.. Kids will marry and form their own families
And if you wanna say that Lucky's frustration in last few episodes is cuz of inferiority complex, then I dont think so.. he is behaving like MCP.. not love-starved husband !
.. And I agree Sweety ji should act more like a wife sometimes and not jz a Mother