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Hi guys,
i was at home today due to being off at work, and was just reading different threads in this forum..
i just read a post from one of our forum members about posting new threads and trying to make this forum a bit more active and debatable!! 😛😛
to be very honest...i have been an india-forums member for close to 6 years now and in 6 years for the first time, i think i have enjoyed interacting so much!! a big thank you to all the forum members for being really interactive and supportive...(even when i was being really stupid at the annoying track of kunal and siddhi's divorce!! Rani, a big thank you to you...your calming and soothing words did help me!!)
Right coming to the main topic of marriages, love and sacrifice...(i remember that scene from the show, when seema is trying to make siddhi understand, what really a marriage is)...the question is do relationships really need sacrifice and commitment? is sacrifice really just being selfless! there are people who agree to this and you will also find people who think...that one should try and love themselves first before actually making anybody else fall in love with them...
for me its all about little adjustments and sacrifices...i must say ekta kapoor has somewhere hit the right chord with regards to her show parichay!! though i agree that some aspects of this show are just lifted from her previous not so entertaining shows but a relationship between kunal and siddhi...is something to watch out for!! siddhi is a normal girl, which most of the girls would like to relate to...whereas i thought there cannot be that principled men in the society...i have to agree that his principles and so called aadarsh for life, is something i have related in real life too!!
2 poles apart people ...one is wild and arrogant whereas other one is calm quiet feminine and soft spoken. they hate each other for who they are!! and their journey starts...
they make first adjustment in their life, that they will tolerate each other for the sake of their mutual love for anand, then destiny plans something else...they end up marrying each other and make another adjustment for the sake of their families..along the line..they learn to give up so much in their relationship, that they started sacrificing for the sake of each other...and hence, fall in love!!
looking at these characters, you just want to think, that love is not attraction, love is not liking, love is not being happy all the time but love is something that will make you feel the sufferings of the person, love is the pain you feel when you see the person you love, in pain...!!
normally a mother loves her child ...there is no give and take!! she only knows giving...hence its selfless and hence its a sacrifice...i always wanted to find out a real definition for love...i always thought that love is an overrated concept and very vague...but looking at all the selfless qualities in siddhi and kunal...i just feel like feeling the love .
my guruji always used to tell me,''i hate it when people say, i have fallen in love, because love never makes you fall. love just makes you rise hence people should always say that i have risen in love!!''
so i am all for the selfless and sacrificial love of siddhi and kunal!!❤️❤️
thank you guys...without you all, this forum would not have been the same...these days i just love to come back from work and read new interesting posts on this forum...
do leave your comments...apologies if I have bored anyone...just felt like writing something, and there wouldn't have been a better place than here!!!
Have a Great day all!!
Purvi😃
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