So I'm one of those people who initially did not mind what Dadi was doing. Yes, she's interfering, but it was for the benefit of her granddaughter. From the beginning of the show, she came off as a very intelligent lady. Whereas the rest of Jahnvi's family came under Viraj's "maya", hm what's the right word? They automatically fell for his words, she was the only one to voice her concerns, telling them that they should be a little more cautious in proceeding further with this marriage.
Furthermore, when Jahnvi's family visited her at the Dobriyal mansion after the wedding, only Dadi was the one to recognize that maybe there was something that Jahnvi was keeping from her, that she wasn't actually happy. And her suspicions were pretty much confirmed when she overheard the watchman talking etc.
And I think in some sense she definitely was justified in interfering and trying to help her granddaughter escape the hell she's suffering through.
However, recently, I feel like her actions aren't smart, they're more spontaneous. Why would someone like her attempt to tackle someone like Viraj? Why wouldn't she try to enlist someone to help her out? Yes she's talked to Sanjay, but he's in jail! He can't help her! There's always safety in numbers, and I think her having one more person along with her, maybe someone from Jahnvi's family, would have been more intelligent. At any point since she's moved into Dobriyal mansion, she could have talked to someone but she chose not to. Even in the past few episodes, ever since Dr. Rana disclosed the truth, instead of attempting to confront Viraj by herself...which led to her being in the current situation she's in, she should have brought someone else along with her. The one hope I have left is when, in today's episode, she said that she sent the file off to somewhere else.
Overall though, yes, I get where you guys are coming from with your dislike for her, but I think her interference is not so bad. And she had the right intentions, so I can't really completely hate her.
That being said, amd I glad that her track is over and we won't see that "adventurous" Dadi anymore? Definitely! It's hightime we get back to Jahnvi
Phew. Long post. Hope I haven't put people to sleep