difficulty to make eye contact during talking?

jhomes Newbie

Joined: 28 January 2012
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Posted: 29 January 2012 at 9:51am | IP Logged
Do you find yourself confused in social 

situations? Are you passionately interested 

in a single topic? Is it tough for you to 

make and maintain eye contact? Then you, 

like many talented and intelligent adults

may be diagnosable with Asperger€™s Syndrome.

asperger's syndrome is development disorder 

that characterized by significant 

difficulties in social 

communication,repetitive behavior of 

patterns,poor social skill and special 

interest. people who have asperger's 

syndrome look like normal that's why its 

called as hidden disability its 

often diagnosed in child and adult.they call 

them selves as an aspie parents 

can know weather their child is normal or 

aspie after 3 years of birth by his/her 


common symptoms and sign of asperger syndrome:

they have difficulty to talk with same age people.
i can't talk properly with my classmates.
i can't talk properly with my relatives

they have difficulty to make eye contact with other people.
i can't talk with people when i try to stare at others eye.
i feel something strange when i try to stare at others eye.

they may have shy nature.
avoid to talk with people..

the have narrow interest means they have special interest.
they have extreme interest their favorite subject.. suppose cars then he/she will find much information about cars.

they may have difficulty to meet other people and make new friends.
i have very few friends and don't like to meet people.

they can talk much on their favorite subject and may be unaware that weather listener is interested or not.
if he/she interested in computer then he/she will talk very much related to computer.
if he/she interested in wild animals/birds then will talk much everything about it

they are very sensitive to smell,noise,light etc...
sound - if they hear loud noises continuously, they can not think clearly.
touch - they have problem wearing some type of clothes, because the texture feels rough.

they may talk like professor not talk like normal people.
they may speak in monotone. no expressions on face,always talking seriously.

they may like to do something again and again.
they may like to eat same food again and again.
if he/she child then may be play same game again and again.

they take things literally

example:if i say grab your partner for dance then they will really grab the dancer instead of understanding call dancer to dance with him/her..

it is difficult for them to tell lies, even when it is important
example:i can't find suitable example for this symptoms but want to say they really honest

they face difficulty explaining their emotions

they face difficulty understanding other people's emotions

poor motor skills
example:i find difficulty to catch the ball,riding the bike..
may be clumsy walking style

[color=chocolate]WHAT CAUSE ASPERGER'S SYNDROME?[/color]
this is most asked question that why some people born with or affected by asperger syndrome??

answer is, we don't know! now a days 

scientist came to the point that there are 
structural and functional differences in 

specific region of brain of normal vs aspie's..they also says that its depends on 

genes but never identified still..

positive points of aspie

-see and remember the details of things that other people miss

-are very good at remembering rules, laws, systems and important facts. This talent is useful in many types of work

-are better at writing than at talking to people, because they are careful to choose words that mean exactly what they want to say

-do well at maths, computer programming and science

-do well at drawing, painting, photography, acting or music

-have a special interest that they become experts in

-enjoy doing the same thing many times over, which some people find boring. Many people with Asperger Syndrome are good at practicing scales on the piano,

- at adding up long sums, and at searching through books and papers to find information and mistakes

-Some people with AS can mimic voices if they are scripted, even just slightly..

[color=deeppink]movies based on asperger syndrome[/color]

Mozart and the whale(2005)

My name is Khan

note:different people may have different symptoms not necessary that every symptoms should match with every aspie.

please don't decide by just reading this weather you are aspie or not..its not official symptoms manual..!! at least half symptoms should match for aspergers criteria[/color] 

please help me to find such a people and be a part of my community where aspie meet each others and share your experience 

don't take as a curse just think  

it is God gift and it has many

advantage..don't worry about it and some 

people says that its happen due to 

mobile,pc,internet but see i'm not just 

talking about social difficulty i'm also 

talking that they have sensory problem,eye 

contact problem and my advice to search on 

plz comment here if your nature match with above signs

plz who have problem just pm me bcoz i need your help also and search about it on GOOGLE..

Angel-likeDevil IF-Stunnerz

Joined: 29 January 2010
Posts: 26777

Posted: 30 May 2012 at 3:25am | IP Logged
No...i ALWAYS look people in the eye.. even if I dont know them, while talking...at all times.
But I have seen people who just look away and never look at me, while I'm talking to them, it irritates me...gotta show them this.. Big smile
AmNotYou Groupbie

Joined: 15 June 2012
Posts: 56

Posted: 15 June 2012 at 8:25pm | IP Logged
thank god am able to eye contact whil talking..feel pity for them..
thnx 4 ur info jhomes..
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