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Posted: 24 January 2012 at 12:05am | IP Logged
Well many long long posts here

Thats what I love about this forum 

Our mythos portrey father's love as well

We have the example of Dashrath ji with us but yes a mother;s love is portrayed more

Mostly a demon;s reason of becoming meletic is due to the mother

Daityas and Devtas are linage of the same mother but got different sanakaras due to there Mothers Diti and Aditi

Similarly Pralhad gohis bhakti from his mother so did Dhruv

So yes Mom is shown to shower more love 

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Posted: 24 January 2012 at 8:50pm | IP Logged
It's not that they are undermining father's love. Just that mothers express it more openly and fathers usually don't. So when there's a situation where a father takes a tough stand, the mother openly says that the father is being very harsh and they go to the extent of criticising the father of not understanding a mother's love.
 
 
It doesn't mean that the father doesn't love the kid. But most of the time it is the father who pushes the kid to do tough things, so that s/he succeeds in life. Sometimes mothers can be tough and the roles can be reversed too as in the Sumitra example mentioned on the previous page. (In the present generation no such generalisation can be made... mothers can be much tougher than fathers at times LOL)

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Posted: 24 January 2012 at 9:25pm | IP Logged
^^ Yeah, the portrayal of a mother's love is all well in mythos, it's just those occasional dialogues characters sometimes say, proclaiming that a mother's love is greater than a father's, which I find totally wrong. The different ways mothers and fathers love their children are all equally beautiful, but neither is greater and no show or movie should portray it to be. Like Lola mentioned in her post, our society tends to generalize mothers as superior to fathers, and we can see this evident in the way mothers almost always get custody of children in divorce cases, and when a child has been kidnapped or killed, the fathers are suspected before mothers. It is their unfair and highly biased outlook that I believe should be changed, though I know it will take a long time, if at all it happens.

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Posted: 25 February 2012 at 7:20am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ShivangBuch


Relating the above theory with your topic of father & mother, both would love their child but there will be difference in approaches. Mother's care will be in the nature of worry more about child's physical safety and happiness. Father's care will be in the nature of worry more about child's abilities and virtues or virtuous aims. Mother will understand more child's pains & sorrows. Father will understand more child's philosophies, thoughts & aims.

 Father will be constantly looking at child's fame and achievements and not at his/her struggle for it. Mother worries about outcomes in child's life. Father worries about the foundation of those outcomes laid down in child's life. Mother takes pain of child. Father prepares child to fight with the pain. 


How beautifully you have expressed this Shivang,  and how true !!!  Especially your last line is awesome.

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