Originally posted by: tanvismile
i think there is goin to b a deal between bhairon n g.may b to return j to his family.
J kya koi toy hai that G can return it to Singh family?
Moreover, why would Singh family accept him back?
Do you really think tanvi, that G is responsible for J's distance with his family and she can solve the problem of J, A and Singh family?I really don't know why is everyone saying -
G has snatched another woman's right; G is the reason for A's unhappiness; G has snatched J???
I mean - how can you "snatch" an adult person? People do say that relationship dies because of the third person, but the reality is that the third person comes because the relationship has started rotting!!!
Even if I accept this "snatching policy" for a second, then also you can "snatch" a person if he/she belongs to someone. When one does not belong to anyone, how can you "snatch" him or her?
Look at JA relationship - J was ashamed to reveal his marital status, his wife and even his family before his friends!
He did not belong to anyone - be it his wife or his family. He would not have been ashamed of them if he loved them.. I mean he could easily reveal that his family lives in a village and as far as A is concerned, he could have told them that he is engaged with Anandi even if he wanted to save himself from embarrassment for "balvivah".
So how can G can "snatch him and return" him back when he does not even belong to those people?
People like Kundatai
who think women make men go astray, do not want to admit the fact that their husbands had stopped loving them - that's why they went to other women. It's difficult to admit it because when we love someone, we do not want to see the flaws in them. Also it becomes difficult to wait for that person or love that person if one admits that the relationship is dead.
Anandi would have led an unhappy married life even if G would not have married J - A would have realized the failure of the relationship, the shallowness of their bond with time - J would have cared a damn for her...the only consolation she would have is that she can show off before the society that her husband is with her.
What is important - mental peace and happiness by leading life on one's own term or fake show of marital bliss before society?
Personally I think J took the right decision of leaving A when he knew that he could not keep her happy - only if he would have done it in an honest, dignified manner without blaming A's education or anything, it would have been much better.
Edited by doyelpakhi - 12 years ago
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