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but den if da gal goes wid da guy she loves and fings dnt wrk out da guy can go bak to hiz family and it wud be as though nofin has happened but a gal iz abused when she goes bak if an arrange mariage break den it waz all destiny dnt u fink
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but den if da gal goes wid da guy she loves and fings dnt wrk out da guy can go bak to hiz family and it wud be as though nofin has happened but a gal iz abused when she goes bak if an arrange mariage break den it waz all destiny dnt u fink
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but den if da gal goes wid da guy she loves and fings dnt wrk out da guy can go bak to hiz family and it wud be as though nofin has happened but a gal iz abused when she goes bak if an arrange mariage break den it waz all destiny dnt u fink
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lol monica let me translate into real english
"But then if the girl goes with the guy she loves and things dont work out the guy can go back to his family and it would be as though nothing happened but a girl gets abused when she goes back to her family. If an arranged marriage breaks then it was all destity, dont you think?"
u get it now?
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well now that im done translating let me respond to what i translated..i DISAGREE. i mean whether the marriage is love or arranged "destiny" plays a part in it. we cannot judge the outcome of a married life before the couple is married regardless of how well the two people may know each other.
If a person loves someone else he/she ill never be able to fully commit himself/herself completely to their spouse. everytime they are together, the thoughts of their "real" love will linger their mind and it will deprive them of the capability to enjot life and live life to the fullest. also, their relationship would be tested everyday. If one spouse cannot live up to the needs of the other and cannot return the love they recieve because their heart is with someone else, the relationship will crack. and both sides will be unhappy. it is a lot simpler to marry someone you love and actually care about. marriage is a live long commitment and it should be well thought about.
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