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fire_on_ice Goldie
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Posted: 11 April 2006 at 10:12am | IP Logged

Originally posted by sowmyaa

I think usually once guy gets married his priorities changes. Men "usually" are not that romantic and give much importance to anniverssaries, b'days, remembering first time we met, firt time we kissed, first time we went for movie etc. thing...compared to women. These things matter more to women. However, when they are your boyfriend/fiancee they want to create the best impression and same with women. I remember asking my hubby to pick up grocery bags from car trunk and now i just order him to get it for me LOL Also, when they are dating they don't have any financial or other responsibilities ...they can devote all the extra time giving you attention, this remains so for some time after marriage too. But after couple of yrs and once you have kids, they get more responsible with finanical load, other things too so they do kind of change. I think it's same with woman. I remember making good food everyday when newly married, whereas now i just get lazy at times to go in kitchen 'coz of stress and other chores.

I think it's just part of growing, and part of being more responsible that takes so much time and stress that you kind of don't give as much importance to your wife as before Cry which is sad, but they do take you for granted after some time too... Confused

Well ... i cant say for sure coz i am not married ... but I do agree with you on what you said ... i mean its sooo different that people change over time ...

fire_on_ice Goldie
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Posted: 11 April 2006 at 10:14am | IP Logged
Originally posted by zoya786uk

Originally posted by SolidSnake

Posting this again...

HAPPINESS

To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.
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LONGEVITY

Married men live longer than single men do, but married men are a lot more willing to die.

 


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PROPENSITY TO CHANGE

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.

LOL

lolz LOL 100% correct

Agreed .... Big smile

samie IF-Veteran Member
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Posted: 11 April 2006 at 11:28am | IP Logged
well when i get married i hope my husband wont b like th@ or else he will have 2 deal wid javz Wink LOL
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Posted: 11 April 2006 at 11:37am | IP Logged

Originally posted by samie

well when i get married i hope my husband wont b like th@ or else he will have 2 deal wid javz Wink LOL

javz? Confused

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Posted: 11 April 2006 at 12:49pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by SolidSnake

Originally posted by sowmyaa

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does. I got to agree here!! LOL


Personal Experience? WinkLOL



...heeee..ofcourse yaar!!! Embarrassed
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Posted: 11 April 2006 at 1:04pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sowmyaa

Originally posted by SolidSnake

Originally posted by sowmyaa

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does. I got to agree here!! LOL


Personal Experience? WinkLOL



...heeee..ofcourse yaar!!! Embarrassed

So both things happened in your case...LOL...Confused

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Posted: 11 April 2006 at 2:49pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by Aparna_BD

Ya Soumya its all got to do with "responsibility". When you are dating , you have only yourself to look after as the girl lives in her parents house . Her needs are well cared for. But when the guy takes up the financial responsibility , they have this HUGE burden.They are looking after not just themselves but the spouse.

Also to men i think greeting cards , flowers , choclates seem like a)superficial b) Waste of money post marriage . Its like some animals and insects and even birds do this mating dance . So for them this whole romantic ritual amounts to the same.This mating dance becomes un-neccesary post marriage!!!!!!!!

Fortunately my hubby as my boyfriend was hardly into flowers and cards . So i didn't miss much. But yup now we are married 7+ years and we often don't even buy each other a wedding anniversary card or gift.Its something i would like to change , but i think my hubby doesn't think these things are a big deal . So well .......... Wacko

 are yeh kya topic nikal diya yaar.... LOL

 i think the same dear.

 Aparna  dear i ,m agree on all u said it here especialy the last 4 lines.

 & u kow what i use to think that i,m only one has this thing in my mind..

 but it everywhere.

 btw it was really nice topic.

 its gonna be 7 years for my marrige annversiry too in this july...Embarrassed



 

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Posted: 11 April 2006 at 2:56pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sukh

Originally posted by Aparna_BD

Ya Soumya its all got to do with "responsibility". When you are dating , you have only yourself to look after as the girl lives in her parents house . Her needs are well cared for. But when the guy takes up the financial responsibility , they have this HUGE burden.They are looking after not just themselves but the spouse.

Also to men i think greeting cards , flowers , choclates seem like a)superficial b) Waste of money post marriage . Its like some animals and insects and even birds do this mating dance . So for them this whole romantic ritual amounts to the same.This mating dance becomes un-neccesary post marriage!!!!!!!!

Fortunately my hubby as my boyfriend was hardly into flowers and cards . So i didn't miss much. But yup now we are married 7+ years and we often don't even buy each other a wedding anniversary card or gift.Its something i would like to change , but i think my hubby doesn't think these things are a big deal . So well .......... Wacko

 are yeh kya topic nikal diya yaar.... LOL

 i think the same dear.

 Aparna  dear i ,m agree on all u said it here especialy the last 4 lines.

 & u kow what i use to think that i,m only one has this thing in my mind..

 but it everywhere.

 btw it was really nice topic.

 its gonna be 7 years for my marrige annversiry too in this july...Embarrassed



 

 

congrats gal ahhhhh so sweet Clap

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