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Posted: 10 April 2006 at 8:16pm | IP Logged
lolz aparna di n sowmya di..."enlighten" us...hehe

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Aparna_BD

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Posted: 10 April 2006 at 8:47pm | IP Logged
Ya Soumya its all got to do with "responsibility". When you are dating , you have only yourself to look after as the girl lives in her parents house . Her needs are well cared for. But when the guy takes up the financial responsibility , they have this HUGE burden.They are looking after not just themselves but the spouse.

Also to men i think greeting cards , flowers , choclates seem like a)superficial b) Waste of money post marriage . Its like some animals and insects and even birds do this mating dance . So for them this whole romantic ritual amounts to the same.This mating dance becomes un-neccesary post marriage!!!!!!!!

Fortunately my hubby as my boyfriend was hardly into flowers and cards . So i didn't miss much. But yup now we are married 7+ years and we often don't even buy each other a wedding anniversary card or gift.Its something i would like to change , but i think my hubby doesn't think these things are a big deal . So well .......... Wacko

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Posted: 10 April 2006 at 11:32pm | IP Logged
lol..funny topic..well yar i think guyz r cheater Dead and everytime we poor galz r trapped in this LOL Ouch

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Posted: 11 April 2006 at 8:45am | IP Logged

Originally posted by Aparna_BD

Ya Soumya its all got to do with "responsibility". When you are dating , you have only yourself to look after as the girl lives in her parents house . Her needs are well cared for. But when the guy takes up the financial responsibility , they have this HUGE burden.They are looking after not just themselves but the spouse.

Also to men i think greeting cards , flowers , choclates seem like a)superficial b) Waste of money post marriage . Its like some animals and insects and even birds do this mating dance . So for them this whole romantic ritual amounts to the same.This mating dance becomes un-neccesary post marriage!!!!!!!!

Fortunately my hubby as my boyfriend was hardly into flowers and cards . So i didn't miss much. But yup now we are married 7+ years and we often don't even buy each other a wedding anniversary card or gift.Its something i would like to change , but i think my hubby doesn't think these things are a big deal . So well .......... Wacko

well dnt knw about u but ere both partners wrk and da gal alwayz membas special dayz if i gt married and he 4gt sommat really special to em den he wud be in big trouble lolz and wats da point in a marriage if derz no romance i mean there shud be a balance ennit

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Posted: 11 April 2006 at 8:59am | IP Logged
Posting this again...

HAPPINESS

To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.
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LONGEVITY

Married men live longer than single men do, but married men are a lot more willing to die.
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PROPENSITY TO CHANGE

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.

LOL

zoya786uk

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Posted: 11 April 2006 at 9:11am | IP Logged

Originally posted by SolidSnake

Posting this again...

HAPPINESS

To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.
______________________________


LONGEVITY

Married men live longer than single men do, but married men are a lot more willing to die.

 


______________________________


PROPENSITY TO CHANGE

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.

LOL

lolz LOL 100% correct

sowmyaa

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Posted: 11 April 2006 at 9:30am | IP Logged
A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.

I got to agree here!! LOL

SolidSnake

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Posted: 11 April 2006 at 10:04am | IP Logged

Originally posted by sowmyaa

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.

I got to agree here!! LOL

Personal Experience? WinkLOL

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