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Posted: 22 December 2011 at 10:18am | IP Logged
Originally posted by nandinidev

Really nice post, Amu! Hug

So yes. Swayam. You're right, I can't read him either. Although I was a little heartened today, to see SOME reaction in his otherwise carefully maintained stony-ness, when he looked at Sharon after saying he doesn't care what she does. Because denial is the clearest sign of actual thought, I saw in Swayam today a hint of the struggle he's by now become so good at concealing. That's actually the only way I can find, of explaining how passive he seems to be all of a sudden where Sharon is concerned. That he's moved into this stage of carefully maintained outward calm, in an attempt to bring some of that inward too, to really get over her. But he's not being able to do it...and I hope that becomes clearer in the episodes to come. Stern Smile
 
Shantanu toh matlab...let me not even go there. He's doing SO well, it's just whoa-worthy. Touchwood. Approve
 
CVs...I do hope we get something more substantial on this. Party kya laati hai humare liye, let's wait and see.
really well put 
yes today we did see his inner struggle his carefully composed mask of indifference nd i dont care attitude faltered today 
as i said he can NEVER stop caring nd loving sharon never ever whatevr he may say nd do he cnt do it 

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Posted: 22 December 2011 at 10:19am | IP Logged
Well see it this way--- this character isn't your typical mopey-sorta character...yeah it's obvious that he's putting up the "I don't care what she does/chooses" attitude and whatever she does most definitely affects him in one way or the other just like how whatever he does affects her. But just like he mentioned today about how this time Sharon would have to take the first step because he's obviously exhausted himself doing so all the while. 
Regarding sharing his inner feelings/ conflicting emotions to Rey-- This might sound gender-typing but it seems true in most cases--- Guys hardly include the "sharing of feelings" part in their "man-to-man" talk.LOL
Besides, letting go is not the same as "giving up," is it? Sometimes, it's good to give someone their own personal space physically and emotionally to let that other person rethink and reevaluate their own thoughts and feelings. And ummm wouldn't it be obsessive of him if he tried to nudge his nose in everything she does or thinks of doing?
Remember how she accused him of being a stalker during their big confrontation? Well if he continues to shadow her every single time or tell her not to do something or not to be with someone, she'll just continue to forcefully repel him and her feelings for him.

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Posted: 22 December 2011 at 10:20am | IP Logged
Originally posted by AmritaluvSwaRon

Originally posted by nandinidev

Really nice post, Amu! Hug

So yes. Swayam. You're right, I can't read him either. Although I was a little heartened today, to see SOME reaction in his otherwise carefully maintained stony-ness, when he looked at Sharon after saying he doesn't care what she does. Because denial is the clearest sign of actual thought, I saw in Swayam today a hint of the struggle he's by now become so good at concealing. That's actually the only way I can find, of explaining how passive he seems to be all of a sudden where Sharon is concerned. That he's moved into this stage of carefully maintained outward calm, in an attempt to bring some of that inward too, to really get over her. But he's not being able to do it...and I hope that becomes clearer in the episodes to come. Stern Smile
 
Shantanu toh matlab...let me not even go there. He's doing SO well, it's just whoa-worthy. Touchwood. Approve
 
CVs...I do hope we get something more substantial on this. Party kya laati hai humare liye, let's wait and see.

Thnx u so much nandu Hug

I love how u and rafz always inspire and motivate me to write..i wish i could write like u guys...u guys rock.

Well yes i totally agree with you nandu...and i seriously hope we get to see a more clearer picture and we dnt have to wait more for them to get together...cz this whole thing is driving me crazy and its super confusing...

I can't believe that since two days Sharon is not even looking at swayam ...as if he does not exist. I hope party bring lots of positive changes for swaron track...and its getting dragged to much...



Awww, Amu! Are you kidding, we motivate you because we know HOW good you really are! Khud ko itna underestimate na kiya kar. You rock too, babe. For real. Hug
 
And ohh yeah, I'm SO with you on Sharon. She's actually what's REALLY confusing me these days. Swayam ka stony-ness I can still explain...but what is UP with her?! Like I said before, I'm hanging on for dear life on that BTS where Sneha was nice enough to explain Sharon ka kya deal hai actually. If it were not for her, I'd have been tearing my hair out over Sharon's downright IDIOCY by now. Gahh! D'oh

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Posted: 22 December 2011 at 10:22am | IP Logged
guys i would like to ask did nybody notice in da precap its been shown dat sharon says chee-vam is intresting nd 'unpredictable'-
remember swayam tld her in dat college trip ki he lyks to be unpredictable
sharon is looking at the same qualities in dat creep cheapo
wht do u guys make of it??


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Posted: 22 December 2011 at 10:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Ramy25

Well see it this way--- this character isn't your typical mopey-sorta character...yeah it's obvious that he's putting up the "I don't care what she does/chooses" attitude and whatever she does most definitely affects him in one way or the other just like how whatever he does affects her. But just like he mentioned today about how this time Sharon would have to take the first step because he's obviously exhausted himself doing so all the while. 
Regarding sharing his inner feelings/ conflicting emotions to Rey-- This might sound gender-typing but it seems true in most cases--- Guys hardly include the "sharing of feelings" part in their "man-to-man" talk.LOL
Besides, letting go is not the same as "giving up," is it? Sometimes, it's good to give someone their own personal space physically and emotionally to let that other person rethink and reevaluate their own thoughts and feelings. And ummm wouldn't it be obsessive of him if he tried to nudge his nose in everything she does or thinks of doing?
Remember how she accused him of being a stalker during their big confrontation? Well if he continues to shadow her every single time or tell her not to do something or not to be with someone, she'll just continue to forcefully repel him and her feelings for him.
Agree one hundred percent. Plus, I think along with Sharon, he's also trying to give himself that space to rethink and reevaluate how he feels, and what he now wants to do, considering that the closed chapter isn't nearly as closed as he'd like it to be in an ideal world. Ouch

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Posted: 22 December 2011 at 10:29am | IP Logged
I don't think that Swayam has given up. He is aware of Sharon's feelings and even her thoughts. He cares for her and that was obvious the way he looked when she was giving Shivam her mobile number. He has realized that running behind her like a pet puppy is not going to help.And so far Swayam's indifference has worked well with Sharon.

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Posted: 22 December 2011 at 10:30am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ramya26

Originally posted by nandinidev

Really nice post, Amu! Hug

So yes. Swayam. You're right, I can't read him either. Although I was a little heartened today, to see SOME reaction in his otherwise carefully maintained stony-ness, when he looked at Sharon after saying he doesn't care what she does. Because denial is the clearest sign of actual thought, I saw in Swayam today a hint of the struggle he's by now become so good at concealing. That's actually the only way I can find, of explaining how passive he seems to be all of a sudden where Sharon is concerned. That he's moved into this stage of carefully maintained outward calm, in an attempt to bring some of that inward too, to really get over her. But he's not being able to do it...and I hope that becomes clearer in the episodes to come. Stern Smile
 
Shantanu toh matlab...let me not even go there. He's doing SO well, it's just whoa-worthy. Touchwood. Approve
 
CVs...I do hope we get something more substantial on this. Party kya laati hai humare liye, let's wait and see.
really well put 
yes today we did see his inner struggle his carefully composed mask of indifference nd i dont care attitude faltered today 
as i said he can NEVER stop caring nd loving sharon never ever whatevr he may say nd do he cnt do it 
Ooh, that's the EXACT phrase that sums his passivity up: Mask Of Indifference. Which is exactly what it is. A mask. Carefully put on to conceal how much he's struggling to really be indifferent. Ouch

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Posted: 22 December 2011 at 10:34am | IP Logged
Amu dii first of all mmuuuaaahhh for making this topic secondly sorry for replying so late... And now cuming to the topic... I m constantly failing to read wats going on wid swayam... I mean like has he really lost all the hopes... Although he said that he is waiting for sharon to take the first step... But he also said that he knows aisa nai hone wala...!!! I mean like i really mise the old majnu... The look-look hawa hawa... I hope i really hope.. Sharon soon realises it...! That majnu se better usse koi nai milne wala...!

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