Only Love is not enough

To sustain a relationship, only attraction and love are not enough.
Understanding, patience and forgiveness are also important.

Gauri's demanding love for Jagya is suffocating and I am reminded of Anna Karenina.

Anandi's undemnding love for Jagya is true love based on solid foundation.

Ultimately Jagya will return to Anandi.

Shree 420, Raju Bangaya Gentleman, Dil apna aur preet paraye. all these movies have examples of straying man returning to his true love.

Gauri underestimated Anandi Jagya relationship. She thought that she has beauty, education as weapons to conquer Jagya. She lacks patience. And she is destroying her so called marriage with her temper tantrums, suspicious nature  and utter jealousy.

@TM though i agree wid u abt G's luv is demanding so not true & A's luv as true but i don't think J"s luv whether 4 A or G is true!! he doesn't luv any1 of them leave apart true luv!!! Edited by tiny15 - 12 years ago

once again what will happen to baby? A ne koi theka nahee liya hai unke baby ka... She can have her own once J will be back...

Edited by hooked - 12 years ago

yup so true...love is not enough...

Love is really not enough for  relation. Love is important but also along with that some other qualities are also necessary for a successful relation. G and J were happy when they were studying , living separately and without much responsibility . At that moment everything was fine . But ones they were entrusted with the social responsibilities and were staying together they are finding it hard to adjust . In such situation only the true colour of a person reveals.

Thanks for all of you for valuable inputs.

For Jagya, Gauri was an attraction. Nothing more. Like a child who wants a colorful toy to play with. He thinks that it is love. And he is damn confused. He just cannot forget Anandi and Gauri knows this too well.
For Gauri, it is love but she became insecure because of Anandi's thoughts. Her love turned into a sort of war with Anandi.
The ultimate result will be a separation between the two.
Whether Anandi accepts Jagya is not a question. Her love for Jagya is not one that of judgmnental. Jagya is part of her soul and she will never reject him.
Samajseva is only her profession as a conscientous sarpanch and citizen.
The hare ran very fast, but it is the tortoise that won the race.

Edited by rightnow - 12 years ago

Jagya and Gauri would have been happyily living a dignified life with the support of their families if they would have handled their relationship in a mature way instead of hurting someone else and trampling her feelings.

Both gauri and jagya not even trying to sort out anything. They just know how to bark on each other. I dnt understand how they r tolerating each other? For any normal person its hard to live at that place which is not less than battle field. They r looking like competitor nt husband nd wife.

In JaAn relationship anandi was down to earth person. She was handling everything so calmly. Jagya never got chance to do any adjustment when he was with anandi. She was carrying burden of relationship. And i think jagya expectin same frm gauri.

So only luv is nt enough. They need to adjust wid each other..