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Posted: 05 April 2005 at 3:34am | IP Logged

Oh, Samy, I certainly don't want him to be with anyone else, either! Oh no, no, no!!! Unless it was me, of course! LOL! Wink LOL 

But, really, I just want people to take a deeper look, an honest and compassionate one, and a realistic one. I don't know, maybe some people like to completely abandon reality when they get into these shows, but I am not one of them. Joking around is one thing, but when you get into character analysis, that is another. I like believable characters, and tend to think of them in that way. And I do an awful lot of thinking about human nature....

Ugh, I need to go crack a joke or two just now, though...

-DKaddict

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OMG dkaddict your analysis is too goodThumbs Up
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Dkaddict - of course, we are here to share views.....haha....I don't take these arguments to heart!

Anyways, I guess I am someone who believes that extramarital affairs are the WORST SINS ever!!! Hence, I can never side with a guy who cheats on his partner or vice versa!

I understand that DK has improved.....yes, he should be forgiven, and he will be forgiven....(well, if I were in Disha's shoes, I wouldn't forgive him so easily)....in fact, acc to all your updates and discussions, Disha has already forgiven him!  Also, I read in the most recent update that although she saw the 'sting operation' video she did not hold much against him! 

FOr a woman who has been wronged more than once, she does have loads of trust in him.....maybe even loves him!    But it's not so easy, and frankly not so realistic, for her to just say, "Yeah! I love you too!  Let's go to bed".....it takes time to make such a decision!!!!  And, well, if DK doest have even little patience, I guess you are right..........he should fall into another woman's arms to satisfy his ego!  Oh, btw, I am not asking him to wait forever either.....at least, until their contract is over!!!!  lolzzz....how long since he has developed feelings for her?  I am guessing not more than 2 months....and that's certainly not eternity!!!!!

About VEdant: I did see an episode when DK ordered her to stop meeting him....but doesn't explain the why!  If he had explained the why, maybe she would have understood....all he says is, "I am telling to you to stop meeting him!  And you have to obey me"....please, she has a right to develop her friends-circle....in fact, I also read that Vedant is actually helping Disha deal with his mom Gargi.....he is the one who tells her that Sumitra gets agitated by red color.....so, in Disha's eyes, Vedant is helping her with DK's mom's recovery and is not happy with his moms (Gargi's) behavior! 

And, I am sorry, I haven't done an in-depth study of this serial....hence, am not sure how Disha interacted with Vedant to make DK suspicious....did she hug him?  What did she do?  If she had only laughed with him or talked to him, DK has no right to get suspicious....but, if DK actually saw Disha trying to come on to Vedant, you are right....Disha should rein herself!  But talking and laughing innocently is not perjury!!!!  Hell, its not Disha's fault that Vedant has fallen for her too!!!!!  What made DK think that Disha is PREGNANT with Vedant's child? Confused

But I think an ideal ending to this serial will be that Disha and DK get divorced, but remain friends.  *shrug*

I do agree with you that being in love doesn't and should not make you blind......and if your partner is someone who has cheated on you, it's even harder to become blind.....if you can understand DK's feelings and emphathize with his insecurity, you should understand and emphathize with Disha's insecurity too!!!!!  If DK should not blindly fall for Disha cuz there is no guarantee that she might stay after the contract ends......Disha too should not surrender herself to DK cuz there is no guarantee that HE will not discard her after spending a night with her!!!!!

Well, anyways, I am a minority amongst DK's fans!!! lolzz...I better shut up!!!!




Edited by krangara - 05 April 2005 at 9:33pm
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Another thing - Dkaddict, if DK should not be an emblem of patience for 'someone who might soon crush his hope", Disha too should not be a 'true' wife to someone who might discard her after spending a night!!!!!   If there is no guarantee about Disha's love, there is no guarantee about DK's loyalty either!


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Oh yeah, in my eyes, an ideal woman is not someone who is a SERVANT to her man....I do find such a thought derogatory! 

By ideal, I meant someone who is trustworthy!  And, from all the updates, I deduce that Disha is one helluva trustworthy woman......I understand that even DK realized this and,hence, surrended his empire to her when he was in jail! 
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Hi

Dk has put alot of trust in disha since Dev baba's murder and even when disha wanted Dk to land in jail. He recently also told her how much he trusted her by gviving her the power of atthorney becuase he knows she is an example of honesty and truth. DK was extremely hurt when disha lied to him when she went to meet vedant and DK told her how much he trusted disha.

I don't believe he should go off with someone else or have an extra martial affair but i think there are problems from both ends. One of the main reasons ebing becuase the foundation of marriage was weak and this was the key to all problems.

But since there feelings towards each other have changed insecurities and fears are still present as they don't talk openly to each other but the reason for that is it was a compromise from start and they didn't share a husband and wife relationship. DK loves for disha started a long time back and he only said it now and the whole transition of his character i am sure disha is not blind and she can see that hence she might be falling in love with DK.

Vedant has been holding disha's hand, being in her room and now he is falling for her and also he keeps telling disha to leave Dk which i find quite annoying as i don't like that...i know he is a friend but should also behave like a devar and Dk insecurities about vedant are present becuase he thinks vedant is out to get him back.

I think it they will go through many ups and downs as long as they come together..I won't like the end to be any different i would hate the serial if they went their own ways but that wouldn't hapen as the prodcuers are well aware of viewers thoughts...

I think i waffled alot and wait to hear from everyone..

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Posted: 06 April 2005 at 12:56pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by krangara

Oh yeah, in my eyes, an ideal woman is not someone who is a SERVANT to her man....I do find such a thought derogatory! 

By ideal, I meant someone who is trustworthy!  And, from all the updates, I deduce that Disha is one helluva trustworthy woman......I understand that even DK realized this and,hence, surrended his empire to her when he was in jail! 

Quite busy these days... will get to the rest later, but thought I'd start out with this.

It is everyone's constitutional nature to serve. It cannot be avoided. In every area of our lives, we serve someone, somehow. Parents serve their children when they raise them and take care of them. Wives do serve their husbands anytime they do something for them. Likewise, husbands serve their wives in many ways. We serve at our jobs, we serve in friendships, we serve relatives, we even serve people we do not know just by being a part of a society. We all serve our governments. The list goes on. And, not to be forgotten, we have our service to ourselves.

Service is not a bad thing, it is a glorious thing. Slavery, or just being a doormat, now, those are some undesirable things!!! But service is an inherent part of human relations. We can even go beyond that- just see how many people out there are serving dogs and cats and the like! Now here is reality: if there really is love, there will be service to the object of that love. It is a natural impulse. Otherwise, what are we doing? Just being concerned about our own enjoyment? Nowadays, more and more people confuse love with mutual sense-gratification, which is, simply put, you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours. And when the desire is no longer satified, those people ditch each other very fast. It is a self-centered thing, whereas love has the capacity, the desire, to sacrifice when needed for the sake of the loved one., regardless of what we get from it ourselves. Love means you want the other to be. You want to see them happy, simply for their sake, not your own. When you love someone, you want to do things for them- that is service. It is glorious. Wise persons have seen this throughout time, and that is why they hold up such examples as Gandhari, Draupadi, etc for us to have as ideals- persons who did extraordinary things for their loved ones, out of a sense of seflessness and a desire to serve the object of their love. That is certainly ideal. Now, this ideal is seen less and less in this growing culture of instant self-gratification, but that does not mean we abandon it. We should not compromise on ideals just because they may be difficult to attain, sometimes even seeming unrealistic. We just do our best, ever striving forward, while admitting that we may not yet have reached our goal.

I would also say that being an ideal woman emcompasses much more than just trustworthiness. Said ideal woman should also have the capacity to truly love and give of her self, which does imply some service (indeed of a very high and admirable type), among other things. Disha has some potential in this regard, as we have seen the sacrifices she has made for her family, but til now, this has not manifested in her relationship with DK, as she is still confused about said relationship. Fine, I can see how she may be confused, it is understandable. But, given that, and given her past interactions with DK, he is perfectly reasonable if he does not trust her completely with regards to their relationship.

When DK handed over the company, it was with the knowledge that Disha would not be able to ruin his company, because she would also be ruining the lives of its countless employees. He could understand that she did not have it in her to do such a thing. He said as much, though perhaps not directly- I do not recall the specific words. He knew her revenge was limited to him only. Their personal relationship is a whole other ball game. People are not black and white- you may be able to trust someone with your money, but not your car. Or vice versa. So while DK could trust Disha with the company, it does not necessarily mean he could trust her to be an ideal wife. All the evidence would be to the contrary in this matter. I do not say that Disha should be an ideal wife at this point in the story, such a thing would take time to develope, given their history, I am merely pointing out that DK really has no cause to think that she will act in that way. And as Samy pointed out, Vedant and Disha do get quite chummy with each other. Put that together with the fact that DK does not trust Vedant's motives, due to the past Pori incedent, and DK is bound to be suspicious. I say it again, I do believe DK jumped the gun a bit when he fell for Gargi's pregnancy rumor, but it was not a completely baseless, out of the blue thing. People, that includes both DK and Disha, do make mistakes. So I can forgive him, esp since he was so quick to admit his mistake and ask for forgiveness.

That, in and of itself, is very admirable (even if it is limited to his interactions with Disha), and is lacking in so many people these days. It shows that his relationship with Disha is indeed important to him, that he does want to work on things, despite whatever difficulties, faults, misunderstandings, etc have been there, are there, and may come up. It is unrealistic to expect anyone to completely become "perfect" in all their interactions with any one else, ever. Even the best of loving couples have disagreements, but those with long-lasting, happy relationships have learned to understand and accept each other, and act in ways so as to lessen any potential difficulties. That happens over time, and along tha way there will be many bumps and jolts, but those who are comitted to working things out, those who are indeed in it for the long haul, will not run away because of some bumps in the road. They work through it, they learn, they forgive, they do there best to create something beautiful and wonderful that will endure so many of life's trials and tribulations. That is what people who are truly in love do. DK seems to be taking up this path, but he cannot really carry it out on his own, now can he? So, whenever Disha decides to jump on board this particular ride (and I do belive she will) then there will be the oportunity for much more progress on both their parts. Right now, DK is pretty much rowing the boat himself, so he may indeed appear to be going in circles sometimes….

Anyhow, as I seem to be writing a short novel here, and wonder if anyone will bother to read something so long, I will leave off here. I may come back at a later time to address the other stuff some more….

-DKaddict, who is thinking of writing a self-help book or something!! LOL! Just kidding…… what a waste of paper that would be!! LOL

P.S. Ever notice that saints always seem to have that desire to serve others- even complete strangers- and are so not self-centered?

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Posted: 06 April 2005 at 4:25pm | IP Logged

Hi

Will comment tomorrow pretty late in uk.

Love the anaylysis..can't wait to comment but really tired..

samyBig smile

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