Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon

India-Forums

   
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon

Be honest, how would you deal with a real ASR? (Page 9)

cocoatree IF-Sizzlerz
cocoatree
cocoatree

Joined: 10 November 2011
Posts: 24952

Posted: 26 May 2012 at 10:18am | IP Logged
personally i like a ASR kinda character..person who is rude outside will always b too good in their heart..its really true..

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

Marybarton

kalo_megh IF-Dazzler
kalo_megh
kalo_megh

Joined: 29 February 2012
Posts: 2610

Posted: 26 May 2012 at 10:21am | IP Logged
i literally deal with a real life ASR everyday...he's my bf...he has almost every  quality of ASR except the painful past...other than that he's just like him...i deal with him very carefully..in the beginning when i met him, i did NOT like him at all...it took me a long while before i fell for him, i would get angry and just not talk to him if he was rude to me..since i'm stubborn, we battled out issues about each other...and even nowadays we have our battles whenever we disagree on a subject...but i've learned to deal with his nature and adjust myself around him...and he does the same because i didn't change for him :D he's still the same, just slightly calmer :)

<3 Barun <3

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

Marybarton

sonia_1 IF-Stunnerz
sonia_1
sonia_1

Joined: 25 December 2011
Posts: 25240

Posted: 26 May 2012 at 10:22am | IP Logged
Don't know about real -life one but if this ASR met me , he wouldn't
know what hit him ROFL

The following 3 member(s) liked the above post:

Marybartonblue.kindletvbuf

preetihere IF-Dazzler
preetihere
preetihere

Joined: 06 February 2012
Posts: 4244

Posted: 26 May 2012 at 10:44am | IP Logged
I dont think i would stick around an ASR kind of guy- too rough is not a good husband material in real life,there are plenty of women who stick around and bear the abuse in the hope he wud change someday coz every abuser is almost always sorry for what he did but he doesn't really prevent a "next time".
I know its not the context here but somehow that fear wud not make me so open to a guy like that- perhaps like Khushi's circumstances made her see the guy behind that mask, if in real life it were then maybe? Still not too sure..i wud be quite apprehensive..

The following 2 member(s) liked the above post:

Marybartontvbuf

Marybarton IF-Rockerz
Marybarton
Marybarton

Joined: 12 October 2011
Posts: 5991

Posted: 26 May 2012 at 11:59am | IP Logged
Originally posted by hinkler

honestly i don't want a asr in my life. but Darcy is my all time favorite character pride and prejudice  my favorite book to the extent i have different copies by different publications. iam fond of reading mills and boons & harlequin romances. and i believe every womans dream man is tall dark handsome arrogant business tycoon. really do i want such a man in my life ?do you want to suffer like khushi want to get insulted like her?    BIG NO  then why do we love them? maybe in our conscience we know  such a man can be controlled only by true love his body and soul only belongs to you  gives unknown power and happiness.

so i think we get that unknown happiness after seeing such romantic soaps and start identifying ourself to the  heroine and fall in love with the protagonist.

do you think so please comment


Darcy or that kind of responsible, mature, self-made (not Darcy in some ways) is impressive to every woman I think. We are programmed to like what exudes security. Not in a financial way, but the big guy thing. Someone responsible, caring, protective all of that. For the most part, it has to do with babies and the future. But things are changing now that women are out-earning men financially and in taking care of responsibilities. But in American men I see a defensiveness - like women don't need us, let her go get a cat and adopt cause she is always looking for perfect when she's quite self-sufficient. It's not quite true. Women don't need men but we want them. They are a cute, interesting species LOL - for the most part. I love Darcy but I think the self-made aspect in Thornton (see my avatar) is my ideal kind of man. I have put my claim on Mr. Thornton of North and South who is basically an updated Darcy (be WARNED Ms. Doodleberry, he's mine! Evil Smile).

shona-li Senior Member
shona-li
shona-li

Joined: 25 March 2012
Posts: 445

Posted: 26 May 2012 at 12:21pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Marybarton


Now tell me about your take on ASR please, let's have fun with this. Here are some characteristics of his on first view:

ASR:
Gorgeous (of course, you didn't know that LOL)
Angry
Arrogant
Rude
Misbehaved
Elitist
Has a weak spot for his sister
Comes from a good family
Can't think emotionally

Quite logical
Quite physical
Has a past he doesn't like to talk about, probably painful
Cries about his mother sometimes
Has a live-in girlfriend (or you can consider him single, now that he FINALLY is)
Still pursues you and is rude when you wonder if he's interested
Then...sometimes gives in and cares about you


Woah! All that from our first view????  I probably won't agree that you'd be able to get to know the stuff highlighted in red from your first meeting with him...it'd probably take subsequent meetings to know all that, and I don't think I'd want to know him more beyond the initial meeting to persist in getting to know him on that level! Khushi however, had no choice!!! LOL
 
My first impression of him would be that he is an arrogant, male chauvanist pig who abuses his supposed intelligence and 'higher' status to get things his way. I wouldn't know if he did or not but by the way he barks at Aman on his headset, I'd be turned off. Intelligence, wealth and looks can only bring you so far. So I guess, it's not much of an impression, he'd be pretty 'characterless' to me! LOL

By that time, I would have stalked off else where to find a better, entertaining conversational partner. ASR doesn't talk much after all. I think Khushi and I though, would hit off straight away! Wink 

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

Marybarton

AllOfTheStarss Senior Member
AllOfTheStarss
AllOfTheStarss

Joined: 02 March 2009
Posts: 218

Posted: 26 May 2012 at 12:24pm | IP Logged
I love the arrogance and all on TV...
but I wouldn't go for that type of a guy in real life. 
I would much rather prefer the opposite kind.
To be honest, I don't think I would go for a guy like ASR in real life.

The following 2 member(s) liked the above post:

Marybartontvbuf

ESR8 IF-Rockerz
ESR8
ESR8

Joined: 07 February 2012
Posts: 6523

Posted: 26 May 2012 at 12:28pm | IP Logged
if it was asr !! i'd let him do everything !! be rude , arrogant, ruthless or wahtever !!, i dont give a damn ! all i'd be doing is just kiss him all the time !ROFLROFLROFLROFLROFLROFL

Edited by ESR8 - 26 May 2012 at 12:28pm

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

Marybarton

Go to top

Related Topics

  Topics Author Replies Views Last Post
Whats up with the he loves me loves me not deal

Author: dnyd   Replies: 4   Views: 1573

dnyd 4 1573 19 December 2011 at 12:50pm by RadheKrish1
Wedding=Deal:Honeymoon=Presentation

2 3 4

Author: Sabarnee_25   Replies: 31   Views: 4833

Sabarnee_25 31 4833 07 December 2011 at 3:50am by Sabarnee_25
wht if deal is only engagement

Author: shtl_l   Replies: 0   Views: 610

shtl_l 0 610 06 December 2011 at 5:19am by shtl_l
ASR-Anjali -Ek Emandar (honest) husband apke liye

Author: sun2011   Replies: 1   Views: 750

sun2011 1 750 28 October 2011 at 11:38pm by .Saraa.
barun honest confession

Author: superdil19   Replies: 3   Views: 1248

superdil19 3 1248 22 October 2011 at 2:02am by minuu

Forum Quick Jump

Forum Category / Channels
Forums

Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon Topic Index

Check these Celebrity also

Disclaimer: All Logos and Pictures of various Channels, Shows, Artistes, Media Houses, Companies, Brands etc. belong to their respective owners, and are used to merely visually identify the Channels, Shows, Companies, Brands, etc. to the viewer. Incase of any issue please contact the webmaster.

Popular Channels :
Star Plus | Zee TV | Sony TV | Colors TV | SAB TV | Life OK

Quick Links :
Top 100 TV Celebrities | Top 100 Bollywood Celebs | About Us | Contact Us | Advertise | Forum Index