Originally posted by: sowmyaaI guess "being complete" is very relative term. Women is not complete without men-vice versa, or women is not complete till she becomes mother depends upon what "woman" wants from her life. I have seen woman who does not want babies and live happily. Finally it boil down to what couple wants and how happy they are and what they want in their life.
Although, I wouls say that having a baby is just uncomparable and you don't know what it is like until you have one. I once read this "one who don't have kids know best how to raise them"...it is so true. You need to go through having a baby and caring him/her to know what you are missing. Unitl you don't become mother you don't know what big lesson you are missing in your life. It teaches you how to love someone by giving all the love you have, teches to to have patience, loving someone without any expectations....I guess being mother change you entirely......so until you become one you don't know what you are missing.
However, if someone cannot conceive a child no one has right to call them incomplete. OR if someone does not want a child no one can call them incomplete. I would say being mother is the most important change/role/experience in women's life ....but if you don't have a child it not end of the world afterall.
👏👏👏- i completely agree with u. complete is indeed a very relative term.
the main thing is the sense of satisfaction frm ur life. if a woman cant conceive or doesnt want to conceive then, also she can live a successful and happy life. its all abt wat u want frm life.
yes, motherhood is indeed a grt xperience. after all, ur baby is anextension of urself which u have nurtured for ninemonths in ur body.
but at the end of the day,more than the society, the woman should decide whether she feels complete in her life or not.
Originally posted by: Signora2Thanks Minnie for the insight, 👏.
"However, I would say, it's not the birth itself which completes a mother, it's having that life in your hands which you know is going to be moulded by you gives that feeling. Those who cannot conceive, it does not make you incomplete." Minnie
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