||Episode Discussion thread: 19th-22nd Dec|| - Page 58

Kastur's maa and baa didn't really said directly that no matter how bad the husband is, you should stay with him and all these stuffs...but they did teach Kastur that, for a wife, her husband is everything and in-laws are her family after marriage, didn't they? They gave her all the advices of being a good dharampatni...but yes, it's different that Kastur didn't understand that at some situations, even these advices and teachings of marriage doesn't work...and here comes her immaturity...she needs to understand some stuffs!

Put it soon. Would like to know what you think.

Rani, agreed about Saroj's not even registering that that's exactly what she's doing to Kastur.

Saroj acts all nonsense when it comes to Kastur because her hate for Kastur is so blind that she doesn't know what she's doing...she needs to get a reality check!

About Baapji...no comments but on a funny note, would like to thank him for getting Mohan and Kastur married because they are magical together 😍 On a serious note, Baapji knew how sanskari Kastur is...there's a hell lot of difference between Kastur and Reena's husband!

[QUOTE=likarsh]Anj, Shradha has given advice which had bothered me long back.  I'll try to find that post, but for me within where the episode stood--what was being told to Kastur was worrisome for me. And that's when I knew for sure that this show would bother me a LOT when it comes to the whole..."duty of a wife" issues.[/QUO

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I don't expect anything else from Baapji...woh toh hai hi 1947 se 🤢

Yeah but Reena didn't say her husband wasn't committed to her cause from her words they were happy but from what I gather he had no self esteem probably due to the fact his family didn't think he'll amount or want him to be anything in life. Why would Kastur put herself in Reena place when that isn't the case with her husband Mohan is nothing like Jatin. Reena has love marriage where as Kastur doesn't, Mohan like working and be something in life Jatin doesn't want to tried so in what place will Kastur put herself in Reena shoes?

The only thing those two have in common is the fact they have tyrant for MIL. I don't see why her answer cliched or however it you called it has to do with baapji 😕. Her replied had nothing to do with baapji but based on Reena own response of wanting to be with her husband and what her mother told her. This isn't Kastur first time saying this she even told Mohan her mother taught her house after marriage is her husband so where in that interpret back to baapji.

I also think some here have Saroj syndrome that due to her blind hate can't see anything beyond it and is the same thing people can't see beyond the blind hate for baapji so something that has nothing to do with him is not being shown as another alliance round.
Edited by pyar-ishk - 12 years ago

Rani, it wasn't a love marriage.  Right? Today's episode clarified that.  Plus as Anj said, Baapji's allowing her back makes sense if you take in what she said Tuesday. That after Reena came back, they tried to take her back but the family refused.

I'm going to sleep now.  It's been a tiring day.  I'll reply to whatever needs replying later. 😃