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Minnie IF-Rockerz
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:20pm | IP Logged
   Folks, please chill.

   Sana and Neil, please don't get personal. And please don't make personal attacks. Sarcastic or otherwise.

   Sana, in a debate, it's not healthy to comment on the personal preferences of a person. Refute, but please don't get personal.

   Same goes for you Neil. Implying immaturity for keeping a view can be construed as an offensive remark.

   Rindam, please don't make sarcastic comments.

   Neil,humour is fine, as long as it is exercised at the right place.Misplaced humour actually can become very very offensive. So please be prudent in using it.Also, bashing, whether done lightly on a forum or heavily in a remote part of a village, is wrong. And a heavy wrong does not make the lighter one justified.

Please keep up the spirit of the debate,and use humour to accentuate a point, not to needle other debaters.

Thanks !!!!


Rindam Senior Member
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:30pm | IP Logged
I'm sorry Minnie and sorry Neil, I guess got carried away.
I've rarely done this before, guess Im in my mean element for some reason.
Sorry for being mean, I stand corrected Embarrassed
sana.abraham Goldie
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Posted: 06 April 2006 at 5:44pm | IP Logged
Im sorry Minnie Embarrassed
Morgoth IF-Rockerz
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Posted: 07 April 2006 at 5:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Neil Diamond

Originally posted by sana.abraham

Originally posted by Neil Diamond


A husband is more than a God for his woman because, its a univeral fact that we remember God only in distress and in need, while a woman always needs HIM or his pocket day in ,day out! Wink
A woMAN is incomplete without a MAN, as I had said earlier.
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Neil, i dont know what kind of woman you meet or are around..but i've yet to see a "woman" incomplete without a man.  incomplete would be she can't get anything right or has trouble breathing for that matter without a male shadow following her around. bored, maybe..not fitting in with social norms such as being in relationships..marrying...experiencing love..these materialism things maybe....but incomplete - no..nor do we live in the stone age where a man dominates his household financially anymore (i'll get back to this later).....so clearly you need to wake up and smell the coffee... in parts of the country where a man is bringing in more money doesn't make him more superior..nor does that make the woman incomplete without him in all honesty to the matter..thats a extremly cheap way of thinking...probability is that he is working a labour class job which a woman wont and cant do..for ethical reasons..in contrary tho, woman in rural india/africa/china toil just as hard in other fields for "financial" support..to keep a family running..and if that be stopped and women sit at home with hands crossed....i'd like to see whos "incomplete" without whom...your points are generalizations..of either movie characters or 2% of the hoggish females out there who use their husbands for money ..b) examples from the 1840's...or c) examples of the % of women who have no resource or information on education/independance...that too because men dont allow it in those colonies...i wonder why?....but when you look at the big picture...there is no such thing as a female or male dominant world anymore...both are equally leaving their mark..infact women have made a bigger mark in the past century. (note: im not trying to be a feminist, whos agaisnt men..but a REAL man (as said by god aswell) is one who see's equality in his woman and never denotes a female as someone who is incomplete without a male figure. thats only the weak,naive and uneducated women..the ones who are pressurized to become that way from birth..they arent given a chance to think as men usualy have made it a point to shape them in a desired way..no free minded woman of today thinks in such a narrow way that a man is their only source of completion.)

Now back on topic.LOL

God is a form of spiritual power whom be cannot compare anyone to. not a husband or a wife..humans make mistakes, god does not. if i was to worship a human as god and that person screws up...what happens then?..do i say "my god has screwed up, he killed someone and cheated me of money"...i would never degrade the image of god by comparing god to a person...it takes a person to walk on the wrong path a second...whereas god does whats right..EVERYTIME..whether we like his decision or not..there is always a meaning behind it...there might be good in someone that you find worship worthy..but god creates miracles..and a nature trait such as being "sweet, caring, honest" etc something you might be attracted to in a spouse..is nowhere near the miracles god can do...so NO..never can a god and husband be compared..both are symbols of respect..but in a different way all together.

pheww!!LOL...wid wannabe feminists arnd, am sure wannabe husbands would dread even considering themselves as God!Wink

The only mistake God did was to give a feminist brainDeadLOL

God does everything for a reason. Even "mistakes" happen for something good.

Feminists were given brains for the good of Male Chauvinists themselves.  Who else would keep the gigantic male ego in check? Wink The ego which encourages a male human to equate himself to God just because his wife adores him?

In conclusion, "jaane de jaane de, thodi hawa aane de." LOL

 

saniyaa IF-Dazzler
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Posted: 07 April 2006 at 3:10pm | IP Logged
i agree sana
sowmyaa IF-Dazzler
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Posted: 07 April 2006 at 4:48pm | IP Logged
Hey i was listening to our regional song the other day but the meaning of that song goes like this..i like it so thought to share it here..it says-

"Lord Rama..you cannot be compared to Sita Maiyaa....She is lot more than you...you are not even half of her"... Clap

guess that answer our question too!!!
RonnieK IF-Rockerz
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Posted: 07 April 2006 at 8:07pm | IP Logged
My wife better see God in me. LOL   LOL    LOL
just joking.
i am no where near God. LOL
Miss-kiss Senior Member
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Posted: 08 April 2006 at 1:27pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by Neil Diamond

A women dominated section!!

anyways...God is there in each one of us. If we respect and value the rationales of other person, we are indirectly worshiping the person,figuratively.

On the lighter side of it...

A husband is more than a God for his woman because, its a univeral fact that we remember God only in distress and in need, while a woman always needs HIM or his pocket day in ,day out! Wink
A woMAN is incomplete without a MAN, as I had said earlier.

a women is just as complete without a man as is a man without a women a husand can never ever reach close to being called a god! god is competely different completey better!! women are just as good as men are and theres not questiong to that!! women can make there own money they dont need men to spoon feed them.

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