Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon

India-Forums

   
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon

Arhi Lovers, read this, will also help in life!

UltimateBarun IF-Rockerz
UltimateBarun
UltimateBarun

Joined: 05 May 2006
Posts: 9922

Posted: 18 December 2011 at 6:21am | IP Logged
A diplomatic peace is not yet the real peace. It is an essential step in the peace process leading towards a real peace - unknown

I sincerely wish every memebr of the forum who opens this post will read it to the end, coz this is not only for this foum, but it'll help u in a long way in life, be it a work place, ur home, or with ur saasu ma!

I love Arnav Singh Raizada more than Khushi Kumari Gupta, for abvious reason that I am a female and he is sooo hot! But when ever he hurts Khushi, my blood boils,. n I get angry at him, again for obvious reason that I am a female n can relate to her pain. 

but I m here for ArHi and I just love them together more than Arnav and Khushi!

Every body is entitled to their opinion and can share them, anger, frustrations, agony caused by the character or the show is understood! U can share them! But, if u are going to represent it in a blunt manner, it's is going to stir a war, an emotional war among the fans n IF members!

Those deliberate posts, made in attempt to create such havoc, are worthy to be locked ,bashed and kicked down!

But , there are few genuine post, conveying their anger frustrations etc, Even these posts stir the same chaos! Though made with no hard feelings as such, it hurts the sentiments of people and fans, initiating an argument and split in ArHi fans!

DIPLOMACY  is the word! I am sorry to say but its a fact! Where ever u go today, u have to stick to this ! this is how we successfully move without gettting involved in unneccessary arguments that actually spoils the peaceful ambience!

the exact meaning is  "skill in handling affairs without arousing hostility"

present ur POV, but becareful as to not hurt other's feelings!

Barun Sobti aka Sanaya Irani, who r 2 mature people might laugh at our forum  if at all they go thru it! coz they are mature, it's just the fiction they are playing! But we are emotional people with lots n lots of sentiments! doesnt mean we are not mature, 90% of the forum is mature ! We get so much into this fiction and start loving them soo much, that any negativity is felt as being offended, be it Arnav fans or Khuhsi fans, or Arhi together!

so, if u are making any kinda post which reflects negativity / hostility  towards the character, be careful with the words. PEACEMAKING doesnt let ur pride down!

If a member according to u is being offensive, avoid commenting, or explain in a subtle manner, that he/she understands the point!

report the post, rather than commenting on it n keeping it alive on page 1, kill it silently!

so, my dear friends who feel that they hav a right to say ASR/KKG is wrong when he/she does wrong, think twice before posting coz that is creating misunderstanding, present ur point in the subtle most way, like I said with Diplomacy!

bringing in another man to make ASR jealous, i would love to see him jealous for Khuhsi, but again when such post are creating confusion n hatred, avoid it altogether

LASTLY plz plz plz dont compare barun/Arnav with any other actor!

every actor has their own talent! personally I dont like an actor n hate him but I never commented on him coz i know he too has got talent and fan following, n that might hurt fan's  sentiments! But if the same actor is  being called as a tough competition for Mr.Raizada or that he is better than Mr. Sobti , If I am not mature enough, I'll start a war here trying to be as vocal as possible! 

I m just brushing it aside coz we r here to enjoy, hangout, discuss, our fav Arhi n IPKKND! this place only deserves their praise, n no Dr.Armaan or Maan or MAnav, or Krishna or Pratigya or Bhramanand Jhakar! ! i just wrote the names of watever came to my mind~ U wann praise them go to their shows respectively n praise, but it is creating a chaos here in this forum which is for Arhi!! so avoid! as simple as that! u wanna bash, shyam hai na! Again plz seperate Abhaas n Shyam! coz Abhas is doing an excellent job! n we have mami, bua, we all unite when we bash them!Wink

I hope I am able to convey my point!

Just a bit of maturity is required to spit the venom and spread the love!


"r u guys coming together or shall we part?
 - Arnav n khushiWink





Edited by community_drive - 18 December 2011 at 6:50am

The following 42 member(s) liked the above post:

radika10imp200020001kausar1219nitvijuiluvdarcyIpkkndworldgudia7swtashKHUSHIASRstar1315svmiBubbliicocaozonera1kitty25shaam91fly_doglittlemoiRozy77--Sobi--Shweta_1-.Pearl.-fareeIshrafan11arshiyana-GredForge---Krish---Antu-_-Aslan-simi_1KeshriyaLadyLaLaanjsincandescentpakpearlLyssaPiePeace67pinky_blueskiesmahamluvsbs..Amina..18shabbo..-IronyDied-..Starktastic

mahamluvsbs IF-Sizzlerz
mahamluvsbs
mahamluvsbs

Joined: 23 April 2009
Posts: 13201

Posted: 18 December 2011 at 6:31am | IP Logged
i second u ! U have put it very correctly !

The following 3 member(s) liked the above post:

rimi015_Dazzling_UltimateBarun

incandescent IF-Sizzlerz
incandescent
incandescent

Joined: 10 September 2011
Posts: 19942

Posted: 18 December 2011 at 6:36am | IP Logged

very well said Zoha Clap 

Right from the beginning I tried my best to stay diplomatic and be a peacemaker at the forum. When someone criticized a character and I disagreed, instead of  getting angry or bashing I made analytical posts and through logical reasoning i tried to convey my POV. 

I have always stated that I started watching IPK because I am a Sanaya fan but after watching the show I became a Barun fan. I am member of both their AT's. I also love ASR and KKG equally. 

I was the one to start the term TEAM ARHI on this forum. 

But then some people repeatedly bashed a certain character repeatedly, yes they were bashing posts, when I and some other members disagreed we were bashed too. 

Since we repeatedly commented on those threads we were tagged as 'teenage ASR droolers without sensitivity towards abuse' . 

Also there were debates about bringing another actor I had an opinion on that too so I commented in various posts. 

I do not doubt Barun's talent or popularity but I do think comparing Barun / ASR with another actor / character is not in the best interest of the show or the forum. 

I ignored once, twice, thrice but then I reacted. I am only human.Embarrassed

I may have reacted strongly but my heart was at the right place.

Last 48 hours have been very unpleasant at the forum. It got the best of me and I realized that the forum and its many fights were hampering my studies and health. 

So I made the announcement that I won't make my own posts for a while. I am not quitting the forum. I just want some normalcy in life. I only want to interact with like minded people for a while and not get into fights.

I also think that lately too many newbies, MID are coming to the forum and taking advantage of the situation. Our forum was a peaceful place. We were a happy bunch. I am angry because I feel somewhere we are responsible for it. 

If I restrict myself I would not get into unnecessary debates. But I am in favor of all the positivity. Smile

From now on I will try to ignore and just report such threads. 

THanks for all your efforts to bring peace to the forum.Thumbs Up







Edited by incandescent - 18 December 2011 at 7:31am

The following 6 member(s) liked the above post:

star1315kitty25zonera1littlemoiUltimateBarun..-IronyDied-..

Rozy77 IF-Dazzler
Rozy77
Rozy77

Joined: 04 July 2010
Posts: 3493

Posted: 18 December 2011 at 6:38am | IP Logged
love ur post dear
i agree wid every word
Targaryen IF-Sizzlerz
Targaryen
Targaryen

Joined: 17 October 2011
Posts: 10307

Posted: 18 December 2011 at 6:39am | IP Logged
a good and useful post as always Smile

i think we should not take criticism against certain actors or characters directly as an attack and we should also carefully choose our words to express our displeasure. 

i totally agree with u on the maturity thing to handle situations in a good way.

and plz plz from my side also to all forum members: 
don't spread negativity and take everything so so seriously!!

chill guys and enjoy the show and all the pics, videos and SS, OS and FFs written by our dear members!!

and plz don't make posts saying ''i'm leaving this is my last post on this forum'' i find it totally immature and absurd!!! it only creates tension and nothing else!!! and if u really want to quit then just do it!Smile


Edited by loveydovey - 18 December 2011 at 6:58am

The following 5 member(s) liked the above post:

star1315kitty25zonera1UltimateBarunincandescent

Peace67 IF-Sizzlerz
Peace67
Peace67

Joined: 07 January 2006
Posts: 13326

Posted: 18 December 2011 at 6:49am | IP Logged
Nicely put

The following 1 member(s) liked the above post:

UltimateBarun

-Antu-_-Aslan- IF-Rockerz

Joined: 29 May 2010
Posts: 5468

Posted: 18 December 2011 at 6:49am | IP Logged
THE ACCOUNT OF THE MEMBER WHO POSTED THIS MESSAGE HAS BEEN TEMPORARILY BANNED.

If you think this is an error please Contact us.

The following 3 member(s) liked the above post:

kitty25UltimateBarunTargaryen

Starktastic IF-Stunnerz
Starktastic
Starktastic

Joined: 08 April 2010
Posts: 43589

Posted: 18 December 2011 at 7:04am | IP Logged
i hope all forum members grow up soon and realize this is just a fictional show and fictional characters and NOT our lives for heaven's sake. thumbs up for your post hon Thumbs Up

aal izz well

The following 8 member(s) liked the above post:

kitty25littlemoiUltimateBarunpinky_blueskiesincandescentTargaryenpakpearl..-IronyDied-..

Go to top

Related Topics

  Topics Author Replies Views Last Post
OS: Shikdum Romance

2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9

Author: CrazyChatterbox   Replies: 70   Views: 38592

CrazyChatterbox 70 38592 12 October 2013 at 2:23pm by priyanka1998
ArHi Pixx Form New Arhi Engegament Promo

2 3 4 5 6 7 8

Author: --HiNa--   Replies: 57   Views: 22208

--HiNa-- 57 22208 08 November 2011 at 9:53am by --Siva--
Friendsss.HEPL HELP...PLZ HELP

Author: ananya2000   Replies: 3   Views: 1801

ananya2000 3 1801 23 October 2011 at 10:34am by minuu
news:ArHi Ka ArHi-Sizzling

2

Author: Khilonaa   Replies: 15   Views: 11125

Khilonaa 15 11125 20 October 2011 at 6:55am by Khilonaa
Why isnt REAL life like REEL life?

2 3 4

Author: Meeph   Replies: 29   Views: 4971

Meeph 29 4971 13 July 2011 at 8:59am by differs

Forum Quick Jump

Forum Category / Channels
Forums

Check these Celebrity also

Disclaimer: All Logos and Pictures of various Channels, Shows, Artistes, Media Houses, Companies, Brands etc. belong to their respective owners, and are used to merely visually identify the Channels, Shows, Companies, Brands, etc. to the viewer. Incase of any issue please contact the webmaster.

Popular Channels :
Star Plus | Zee TV | Sony TV | Colors TV | SAB TV | Life OK

Quick Links :
Top 100 TV Celebrities | Top 100 Bollywood Celebs | About Us | Contact Us | Advertise | Forum Index