Joined: 01 April 2005
[QUOTE=queenbee]I I've seen 20-somethings who bravely shoulder and actually ask for responsibility, and 40-somethings who behave like they're in their second childhood, completely and hedonistically self-absorbed.
Why are u comparing Abhi to your responsible male friends?.....We are discussing him as an indivisual
Joined: 04 January 2005
And'shock' is right.... he is still maturing.....and again...
without realising... he let guilt take the better of him...and
Oops...there we go again...
Abhi was having a rollicking affair with his partner while being
married to his wife, who was expecting their first child. Try as I
might, I can't believe that Abhi did not know how much his infidelity
would hurt his wife. It was not even a one-night-stand which women
sometimes tend to forgive or overlook. He had been lying to Simran
about his whereabouts, inviting his girlfriend over to the home he
shared with his wife, even making love to her on their marital bed. He
was fully aware of what he was doing and the need to keep it secret so
that Simran does not dump him.
It's very strange that he feels guiltier about deceiving dead people
than he feels about deceiving the living. To make amends to a dead Neha
for cheating her out of the love she rightfully deserved as his wife,
he cheated Simran out of their only chance to make a solid life for
themselves, and he cheated his daughter out of a father's love. The
hard part about trying to attain forgiveness from the dead is that you
can never know if you've got it - well hey cos they're in heaven!!
In other words, Abhi was trying to atone for his bad karma by creating further bad karma
... trying to appease the dead by shunning the living. Should Simran
forgive his 'lack of self-realization' as just another impulsive act
just because he is basically a good human being? I believe 99.9% of
human beings are basically good people. But, as someone rightly said - Far more than our abilities, it is our choices who determine who we really are. I agree a hundred percent!
Astha's Indifference towards Abhi!!!
Author: sree Replies: 18 Views: 2987
|sree||18||2987||07 February 2006 at 7:50pm by krangara|
is yash abhi's son???
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|april||1||928||05 February 2006 at 3:39pm by april|
Today's US episode: abhi's behavior
Author: rachel490 Replies: 3 Views: 1103
|rachel490||3||1103||23 January 2006 at 5:45pm by calli|
i had always had a feeling that
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|*PunjabiGirl*||4||558||05 November 2005 at 9:40am by Anastacia|
Does Simran always stand for the truth?
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|vvrsun||7||890||28 June 2005 at 9:34pm by Akshata|
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