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Abhi- always on a guilt trip

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Posted: 01 April 2005 at 11:32am | IP Logged

Abhi's charecter is actually interesting.... yeah...he's taking his time to mature....but then... this usually happens to guys who fall fer older wimmin....

Since the very beginning.... Abhi's charecter has just been 'growing up'...his life is nothing but ' late realisations'....he's always too late....poor guy....

I actually feel sorry fer him.....

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Posted: 01 April 2005 at 12:52pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Khwaab

Abhi's charecter is actually interesting.... yeah...he's taking his time to mature....but then... this usually happens to guys who fall fer older wimmin....

Since the very beginning.... Abhi's charecter has just been 'growing up'...his life is nothing but ' late realisations'....he's always too late....poor guy....

I actually feel sorry fer him.....



Do you mean, men who fall for older women take LONGER to mature?!

Isn't that a bit of a generalization? ConfusedConfusedConfused


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no...i didnt mean they take longer to mature... i mean that older women are already mature... and to match their level of maturity... the much younger guy has to mature... come up to their level of intellect....esp if the woman is intelligent, indepentent and has her own opinion of life and pple....this is one place where our young loverboy's ego wont be happy.
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Posted: 01 April 2005 at 1:17pm | IP Logged
I beg to differ... I don't feel sorry for Abhi at all. I've seen 20-somethings who bravely shoulder and actually ask for responsibility, and 40-somethings who behave like they're in their second childhood, completely and hedonistically self-absorbed. Wisdom does not necessarily follow age. Who's to say that, given the same circumstances, a man approximately the same age as Simran would have been faithful to her?


I wouldn't judge a man specifically by his one act (or propensity, or whateverWink) of falling for an older woman. There has be a level of maturity and level-headedness to keep a relationship between any two people strong. Abhi lacked these finer, basic qualities from the very beginning, as he put himself and his own desires above everything else. He wanted the romantic and ethereal quality of their love to last forever, not realizing that you have to take some pains too, to make a marriage work. He was afraid of fatherhood stealing away his youth - but I've seen quite a few male friends of mine in their mid-20's who are crazy about their kids. He allowed his manipulative partner to seduce him - knowing fully well the relationship would never progress anywhere - only because he wasn't able to consummate his relationship with a hugely pregnant wife. How selfish and pleasure-seeking is THATConfused!!!!!

I still believe that Abhi had a lot of growing up to do, before he was ready for a relationship - ANY relationship. Could've been with a younger woman as well. Basic traits don't change.
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Posted: 01 April 2005 at 8:23pm | IP Logged
well... atleast we agree that he's immature.... that's what i was saying all along!..u just put in many more words....lolLOL
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Posted: 01 April 2005 at 11:07pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Khwaab

well... atleast we agree that he's immature.... that's what i was saying all along!..u just put in many more words....lolLOL


Is that so?Smile

Now why would anyone feel sorry for someone like that?Confused
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Posted: 02 April 2005 at 2:30am | IP Logged
abhi will still mature more but instead of him living in guilt about neha he had responsibilities and he had a chance to marry simran but the idiot ditched her on her wedding day.
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Posted: 02 April 2005 at 6:44am | IP Logged

I just feel sorry for him ..period!.....Stern Smile

U want more details?....coz he's actually a nice human being( u can tell what he thinks(which is always good) by the articals he writes... by the 'award-wining' books he is writing).... he ends up hurting pple without knowing it...without realising it...he doesnt mean to do it...and unfortunately... when he does realise it.... it's too late...thats why i feel sorry for him...he's like a kid desperately trying his best to grow up......like... that scene wen he is being awarded....and Simran is called to give away the prize....how he hugs her... it's so childlike!....

And'shock' is right.... he is still maturing.....and again... without realising... he let guilt take the better of him...and Oops...there we go again...Unhappy

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