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I am so disturbed to see the treatment meted out to Saloni by Brijesh, and even more disturbed to see Saloni meekly submitting to the injustice and not standing up for herself !!!!!!
I feel the one who takes injustice is as much as fault as the one who does it !!!
Listening to elders is fine and respecting their wishes is great. But bowing to mental torture in the name of family honour and insulting your own parents........where have we reduced our society to??? These regressive themes in these serials thoroughly disgust me !!!!!
What message are these terrible themes giving out to those tender girls growing up all over India? That once you get married it's Ok to be rude and hurting to your parents if asked by the high and mighty in laws?? That once married the so called daughter in laws are slaves?? That parents can be belittled at the whims at the so called in law 'elders' ?? That you are younger member in a household, you have no self respect and can be insulted at will ? That your mother or father might die and you don't have to care because you are a bahu??
No wonder female infanticide in India is so rampant. Why bother to bring up a girl at all who would turn against you in the name of a family she has come to know for a handful of days ?
Why can't we have progressiv themes where the girls learn to balance between respect and having a mind of their own as well? Have the self esteem and realise that she too is an individual with needs and thoughts and an adult who will take a few decisions of her own whether her family members like it or not and they in return learn to accept it as well??? Why can't we have younger members of a family respectfully declining to carry out discriminating, offensive and oppresive 'orders' ? To top it, any female who is shown to have an independent thinking has to someone as evil as Kaveri. Which means, in India, ONLY evil females have a mind of their own. The rest all are herds of goats tied to the barn to produce offsprings !!!!
I am thoroughly, utterly disgusted. And I have seldom despised a character more than Saloni in these past two episodes.
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Add to that being a spineless mindless wimp, who does not think twice to raise a hand on her elder bhabhi (we know she is evil, Saloni does not, and to all means and purpose, Kaveri did the right thing no matter what her intentions were). Talk about double standards !!!!
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I agree with you completely. but i do think that rimjhim was way better than saloni or kkusum or all the other women. Rimjhim has brains. she knows when and how to act appropriately. yes, she is very soft natured and respectful to everyone, but as soon as she sees injustice she doesn't care who it is. look at all the pain shubhra caused saloni, all the insult, the insolence, and stupid saloni never said a word. but look at rimjhim, even though she knew megha hated her, she was always strict with her and gave her the right discipline. and in time, megha got to realize the value of her mother. she wasn't even scared to speak up against naina devi, the so called powerful politician. we also see her shooting malini and strangling shweta. and the way she gave shweta the taste of her medicine, the tactics she used to get her to the mental asylum was down right smart!! saloni is nothing compared to rimjhim, rimjhim fought right till the end, and before she left the world, everybody got to realize her worth. you can't just sit around and wait for ppl to give u repsect and love like saloni does, because the world is a cruel place. you have to earn your respect. of course over time, everybody gets to know the nature of a nice person, but in the meantime you need to be stern so that people don't step all over you like a door mat. I would have to stay rimjhim is my fav. character, and saloni needs to go a long way before she can gain the same amount of respect from me. niceness and kindless is all fine and dandy, but not at the expense of your self respect.
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