Posted: 25 March 2006 at 2:26pm | IP Logged
Relax. Obviously you have something to defend yourself ABOUT since you're all of a sudden justifying your feelings about Mona. RE-READ what I wrote..I used Mona as an example..I have SPECIFICALLY stated that this is nothing about defending her..it's about ANY person @ all. Before you guys get all jumpy, read EVERY WORD THOROUGHLY. I don't expect the world to like Mona Singh..she's not my best friend or my sister & even if she WAS, I wouldn't expect the world to like her. The bottom line is what I have stuck to on I-F since the DAY I joined since everyone seems to enjoy bringing up the fact that they weren't "allowed" to call Mona fat..LET ME REPEAT MYSELF..you could call anyone anything but pouncing on them for their physical appearance is uncalled for..but AGAIN, you have your opinion & since you're obviously allowed to state it, it is also MY right to state MINE..if mine involves saying that you shouldn't call people FAT & FLABBIE, so be it. It could be Mona Singh, it could be Delnaaz Paul, it could be my MOM. I dislike SS upon the basis of my personal interaction w.her..but I STILL won't call her "anorexic" as many have b.c it's not right to slap an eating disorder or even a reference to it upon people. I have been told that numerous times & it is my BIGGEST PET PEEVE. I love Mona, again, as based upon my personal interaction w.her. I don't EVER tell you all to like her..go back from April 15th, 2005, the day I joined until this very day (I personally don't have the time for that) & you'll NEVER see a post of mine saying, "Oh my G-d, you HAVE to like Mona..how can you NOT??? That's wrong." Please..to each his own is a motto I have ALWAYS lived by & I will continue to. So before you all get defensive about you & your views, read, re-read, & then read once more..& then find me the place where I said you can't feel how you want. I'll publicly apologize if you find something like that.
Enough of this conversation on my behalf..good dayyyy folks!