Joined: 03 March 2005
Reading your comments makes me think, you gys are really DK-addicts. Everybody supports DK and want Disha to give in.
Don't get me wrong, even I agree that Disha should be honest to herself about her feelings. And Disha and Dk should end up together and all.
On the other hand DK is not a "nice and warm" person to live with. At the smallest things DK jumps to conclusions and suspects Disha without even listening to Disha's explanation. DK even threatened several times that thiss will be Disha's last day in DK Seghal's house. Kisise pyar karte ho to bharosa bhi karo.
As someone wrote in this topic "Sinners don't become saints overnight ..."( I think it was DK addict), even this goes for Disha. Give her some slack and time. She will come around. Disha has some mayor things to accept in the last 6 Months: Death of her adoptive father, ID of her biological father, death of her biological father, hate of her adoptive mother, giving up her first love, the fear of losing her adoptive sister, cruel Gargi who rang badalti rahti hain and above all a cruel man like DK trying to destroy Disha. And the change of DK to love confession.
Love to read your replies.
Joined: 07 March 2005
Joined: 21 January 2005
Oh, Diksha, I agree, it will all have to take sometime, else the story would not be as enjoyable. Still, I would like to see Disha melt in his arms just a bit... then of course she could go, "wait a minute! What the hell am I doing?"
If you put me in her place just now, after what I've been through the last 5 1/2 years, yeah, I'd melt! DK would be like a breathe of fresh air! At least he is in the process of reform- and coming along nicely, I must say! A wise man once said, "don't criticize a man in the shower for being dirty!" Not to say you couldn't point out a spot he missed, I guess...
I always like to take a step back, and try to see things from the other person's perspective. If Disha could do that, it would do their relationship a lot of good- same if DK would, as well. I wonder if either of them do much thinking- they just seem to react automaticly to everything, then regret it later.
Whatever saintliness Disha may appear to have, I do not know how deep it runs, for I do not know if it has truly been put to the test. It may seem on the surface that she has been through some terrible things, but life can get so much worse than what she has been through. If you've ever seen a realistic movie on the life of prisoners of war, you may know what I mean. Or try watching Schindler's List. Now, there's some trying situations!
I must say, she has already resorted to some questionable tactics in her quest for revenge- itself not saintly. She may be a nice girl with usually good intentions, but she does not impress me much. For her, yeah, her life was great before DK came along, and would then seem terrible since, but things could have been soooooooooo much worse! She could have been stuck in an Ekta serial!
Seriously, though, DK has been mean, rude, and underhanded, but he was not the monster he easily could have been. He did not rape, beat, imprison, etc. And he has come a long way.
No, I do not want them to kiss and make up just yet, but Disha could be more considerate. And melt just a bit more, at such lovely moments as presented by DK just the other day.
On the adultery issue- when DK was with Sanya, yes, that was a cheap and low, low way to irritate Disha, but at that point, neither of them considered their marriage a marriage, or even wanted to have such a relationship. Now, however, DK most certainly does want Disha as his wife, and has declared his feelings for her. I think he did jump the gun a bit. It is most likely because he is insecure about their relationship, what with Disha claiming to not care, yet often implying something else by her actions. Poor guy must be real confused! If you take a look at Disha and Vedant from DK's position, its not too hard to see how he so easily fell into Gargi's trap on this one. And the fact that he was so quick and sincere in his apology speaks volumes to me about his character. I think that by now, DK would preach something different than what he would have back in the early days.
Anyhow, before I write a novel, I'm going to move on to another topic....
-DKaddict, who feels confident in saying that hell and heaven are relative notions
Joined: 07 March 2005
Joined: 21 January 2005
Yeah, same page! And if Disha has a problem with ending up with DK, I'll come and take her place, no problem!!!
I do enjoy the mix of intellectual conversation/discussion and outright laugh-your-a** -off humor! This forum has really helped me to open up and expand aspects of myself that had been buried for so long. Diu vivat I-F! Or, for the Latin-ignorant, vande I-F! Such a lovely collection of souls I am so greatful to have found!
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