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Posted: 08 October 2007 at 12:12am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Maya_M

Originally posted by Believe

"Bhaarya veetil parama sugam randu naal kashijaal patiku samam"

If someone asks for translation then LOL. Is it a movie dialogue?

Ya the dialog used in Film tooLOL I mean Ghar jamai same like a PET ..okWinkTongueLOL

 

sorry no offence to all Ghar jamai's dil pe mat lo plz



Edited by Believe - 08 October 2007 at 1:00am
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Posted: 08 October 2007 at 12:46am | IP Logged
actually, they should be as welcome as ghar-anything that we welcome Smile why not?
gender-based discrimination of free-loaders is rude.
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Originally posted by lighthouse



I have seen families where parents are used as babysitters and house minders and that is tragic.

Well said Smile

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why do we look down!!!??? because he has stooped so low in pride and self-esteem and thats where he is - down!!!! Smile

Edited by qwertyesque - 08 October 2007 at 8:50am
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Posted: 08 October 2007 at 10:10am | IP Logged

Originally posted by qwertyesque

why do we look down!!!??? because he has stooped so low in pride and self-esteem and thats where he is - down!!!! Smile

 Well said and succinct..Smile

 After the nuptial ceremony and sumptuous reception, the highlight of any wedding is Bidaai of the bride. A girl is led to believe since early childhood that her prince charming will take her away to live a new life with new family.  Ghar jamaai scenario would definetly crush all the dreams a girl has ever had especially if the man is financially dependent on his wife. That's why they say a girl should not marry "down" .Smile

 

 



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but sometimes the situation requires a ghar jamaii. ghar jamaii......someone who lives with the in-laws right?

well i've known of several men who've gone to live at his in-laws place in india.....to live in their village simply b/c his in-laws had no sons. so they needed someone to take care of the parents and everything else (property included).

sure some men were greedy and went for the land but others were genuinely there to take care of his wife's parents....thats not so wrong now is it?
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Posted: 08 October 2007 at 2:22pm | IP Logged

Originally posted by mittijalebi

well i've known of several men who've gone to live at his in-laws place in india.....to live in their village simply b/c his in-laws had no sons. so they needed someone to take care of the parents and everything else (property included).

this is something exceptional . I would say very good step Smile

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