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Posted: 15 March 2007 at 5:42am | IP Logged

Originally posted by Dabulls23

who said Ghar Jamai does not work and he lives off of his Wifi and ILs Confused Ouch ? All he does is after marriage moves in with his wife and ILs Embarrassed He still is responsible to provide for as husband-Man. He is not crippled or totally disabled. He still is in perfect condition to use all his god given senses and organs (although men do use them very selectively) Wink LOL J/K guys before u all come beat me up Embarrassed LOL

On a serious note same rules apply to men what apply to women as far as moving in with the spouse and ILs after marriage Tongue .

Agree Dabulls.... Clap Smile

The Ghar jamai word is too old and instantly our mind thinks that he doesnt work and is just enjoying on inlaws money and what most of us have seen in hindi movies.Ouch

If a couple is staying with wife's parents after marriage for whatever personal reason and the husband is well earning and providing for his family, then why does the society still call him ghar jamai is beyond me. 

There are many cases where girl's father or mother is alone and have only one girl and so if after girl's marriage her hubby and she stays with them then what is the problem... when the husband in the  newly married couple is well earning and providing for wife and future children. I dont see any wrong in it.

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Posted: 15 March 2007 at 6:34am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sweta01

Originally posted by Dabulls23

who said Ghar Jamai does not work and he lives off of his Wifi and ILs Confused Ouch ? All he does is after marriage moves in with his wife and ILs Embarrassed He still is responsible to provide for as husband-Man. He is not crippled or totally disabled. He still is in perfect condition to use all his god given senses and organs (although men do use them very selectively) Wink LOL J/K guys before u all come beat me up Embarrassed LOL

On a serious note same rules apply to men what apply to women as far as moving in with the spouse and ILs after marriage Tongue .

Agree Dabulls.... Clap Smile

The Ghar jamai word is too old and instantly our mind thinks that he doesnt work and is just enjoying on inlaws money and what most of us have seen in hindi movies.Ouch

If a couple is staying with wife's parents after marriage for whatever personal reason and the husband is well earning and providing for his family, then why does the society still call him ghar jamai is beyond me. 

There are many cases where girl's father or mother is alone and have only one girl and so if after girl's marriage her hubby and she stays with them then what is the problem... when the husband in the  newly married couple is well earning and providing for wife and future children. I dont see any wrong in it.



ghar me jam ke baith gaya so ghar jamai Big smile LOLLOL that's the Dead-kind.

working and taking care of his family - jsut staying at in-laws is not ridicule-worthy.  i agree.
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Posted: 15 March 2007 at 8:07am | IP Logged

Originally posted by chatbuster


yaar, this is so unfair. it should be fine to be a ghar jamai. more's the better if it's a ghar on prithviraj road and comes with a hot gharwali who knows every lil trick in the book to keep her guy happy. Wink nothing like being a bum and living off others without having to lift a finger. kya problem hai? let them look down all they want. one can always give them dirty stares LOL

 LOL LOL No problem at all as long as today's Ghar Jamai signs a pre-nup..Wink Who cares about the petty daily Kharcha, it is the coveted big pot that needs to be protected..!!!!! 

 See Ghar Jamai does not have to stay with IL's.. He can still be a Ghar Jamai if the wifey brings in substantial assets to the marriege IMO...and the hubby decides to keep it. !!!! 

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Posted: 15 March 2007 at 9:08am | IP Logged
Originally posted by lighthouse

Originally posted by chatbuster


yaar, this is so unfair. it should be fine to be a ghar jamai. more's the better if it's a ghar on prithviraj road and comes with a hot gharwali who knows every lil trick in the book to keep her guy happy. Wink nothing like being a bum and living off others without having to lift a finger. kya problem hai? let them look down all they want. one can always give them dirty stares LOL

 LOL LOL No problem at all as long as today's Ghar Jamai signs a pre-nup..Wink Who cares about the petty daily Kharcha, it is the coveted big pot that needs to be protected..!!!!! 

 See Ghar Jamai does not have to stay with IL's.. He can still be a Ghar Jamai if the wifey brings in substantial assets to the marriege IMO...and the hubby decides to keep it. !!!! 

haha, nice. so there are other possibilities too for leading the good life. just let her get the dosh WinkLOL

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Posted: 15 March 2007 at 9:31am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Maya_M

Originally posted by lighthouse

 See Ghar Jamai does not have to stay with IL's.. He can still be a Ghar Jamai if the wifey brings in substantial assets to the marriege IMO...and the hubby decides to keep it. !!!! 

That is our Indian cultureWink. Lighty, don't mix it up.

 Haan Maya but Joint family kaa zamana nahi rahan , so I am extending the Ghar Jamai defintion to be included into nuclear families..!!!! LOL Wink

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Posted: 07 October 2007 at 11:50pm | IP Logged

 

Originally posted by chatbuster


yaar, this is so unfair. it should be fine to be a ghar jamai. more's the better if it's a ghar on prithviraj road and comes with a hot gharwali who knows every lil trick in the book to keep her guy happy. Wink nothing like being a bum and living off others without having to lift a finger. kya problem hai? let them look down all they want. one can always give them dirty stares LOL

LOLLOLlol thats sound funny...LOL

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