Posted: 13 December 2011 at 3:04am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Mehek134
Originally posted by kikyo
Originally posted by rasyafan
Originally posted by kikyo
many people in the world marry in church , temples , mosques , courts without their parent's involvement and it is never called an illegal marriage
and yes only tying mangalsultra and filling maang with sindoor no one become husband wife ..concious oaths too have importance... apply this theory of sindoor and mangalsutra to fraud marriage of vee ya where groom didn't know who he is marrying
for your kind information in hindu marriages mangalsutra tieing and sindoor bharne se shadi ho jati hai and 7 nahi 5 fero ke hi baad shadi ho jati hai which can never be broken
even if one does not take 7 feras jai mal bhi na pehnao then also boy and a girl ki marriage ho jati hai
sirf 7 vachan bole jaye zaroori nahi
as for bhabhi dewar marriage legality to baad me aati hai pehle social norms are against it just as they are against marriages between first blood cousins unhe bhi shadi karne se koi law nahi rok sakta but again social norms are against it
agar har ghar me dewar bhabhi ki shadi hoti rahi then kya haal hoga hamare samaj ka
whatever they show in tv s is compklete crap and nonsense
and for your kind info in hindu marriages oaths are too important otherwise sab hi sindoor or mangulsura pehna kar farigh ho jatay there would be no saat pherays ...in christian marriages they do say i accept which is oath not they only give ring ...in Muslims they recite kalimas in nikah not only kabool kabool hay ...get some information about religions and your social norms the world not only revolves around your social norms and how much narrow minded you are ..how can you mock any other society and religion who allow cousin marriages
which social norms are against it get a life there are many social norms in favor of it ...india is very big country with many social norms and cultures just one thing is allowed in one and not allowed in the other it doesn't mean its not respectable or sharreef...and moreover there are many hindus here on this forum who approved veecha marriage it means all hindus are not following one custom ..
hey my dear just chill ..let me tell you something which i have asked from my hindu friends after reading devar bhabhi jaap here actually i had this confusion if a jiju can marry his saali after death of his wife then why cannot devar bhabhi marry ? why so many rules only for woman not for men? ..you know what they told me ? these customs were made in order to avoid illegal, impure repationships between devar bhabhi or jaiths in presence of the husband ..these customs were made so that devar or jaiths cannot lay bad eyes dirty eyes on their bhabhis , molest them or force them in relationships ..its a sin ..but they are not made to create hurdles if someone wants to give a new life to someone ..just see veer ichcha's case ..iccha was a widow living in a miserable condition ..at a young age she lost her husband thus losing all colors of her life ..veer was once her lover , her finance ..ichcha didn't came to veer veer came to her ..if he married her and gave her a new life from a curse whats wrong in it ?many people in the world do so..moreover therez not much difference in their age infact ichcha is younger to veer ..this situation indeed becomes very funny of veer equal to ichcha's son who was once her finance ..
many a times in reality it happens that marriage was about to happen with one brother happens to the other ..it doesn't mean the other becomes your son
and i compeletly agree with your previous comment if this devar bhabhi marriage were so illegal in india why there was no case on this show ..no riot of mocking indian customs ..now a days people file cases against shows and films for small small things which goes against them uttaran has also faced name issue but no one objected bhabhi devar marriage only tappu fans are
it means majority have no problem with it there you go ...but veer tapasya marriage was indeed illegal in every shareef society in the world
but one can understand cvs never made that marriage successful thus proving such marriages have no future because it was wrong but no such thing for veecha marriage ..and cvs have brought all old ghisay phitay customs which are not applicable now in the show for ichcha ..even Bundela's objected her remarrige but i have not heard anything about devar bhabhi marriage yet in the show ..have u?
i am perfectly fine dear actually that every shareef gharana comment boiled my blood
here on IF we people belong to different cultures and socieities, religions ...there might be many differences among us ..this is uttaran forum not only religions war zone thread so avoid such comments which degrades others ..now in many societies these things are allowed couisn marriages , devar bhabhi marriage in case the woman is a widow and is willing to marry so why bring this logic of every shareef ghar in india ...we all belong to respectable societies
Edited by kikyo - 13 December 2011 at 3:37am