Saath Nibhaana Saathiya

Ahem and love: testing times

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Posted: 12 years ago
Amongst the melodrama was anxiety, frustration, tension, raised temper and pressure for Ahem. Every ounce of him was being tested, checked and retested to twist his emotions, spiralling him further and further into the depths of oblivion.
 
He was a man taking full responsibilty and his mind eating himself with blame for why did he get her to do this.
 
He was a man helpless, with no ego, status, reputation, prestige or money could buy that would award him the blood required.
 
He was a man restless with unshown love and affection for his love lying on her death bed.
 
He was a man as a husband caring for his wife, not knowing what will happen next with her.
 
These are his testing times.
 
How will he overcome them? Will he pray like the rest of his family has started doing? Will he make promises to keep? Will he ask her kanaji to give him a second chance? What do you think?
 

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Posted: 12 years ago
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This is a wonderful analysis Swasthi.

Although we only saw his with her alone for few seconds, his pain when he saw her trying to fight for her life was, palpable. He felt helpless at not being able to help her.

He prides himself in achieving the impossible, but when he needs his skills the most, he is lost and helpless. He scolding himself because as a husband he gave her permission to go pat the ransom, although he promised to be her shadow, he let her go rescue Rashi on her own, his guilt, combined with realization what she is to him, is making him restless and anxious.

When he walked beside her, it did look as though he was pleading with her to hang on, and to come back to him.

At the end when his mom questioned where they will get the blood from, his anxiety and helplessness increased as him mind raced at the possibilities.

He will pray and make promises.

But when he finds out that Urmil could have helped her from the beginning I think it will send him to the edge and once Gopi is safe, he is going to blast her for not speaking up in the beginning, and this time she won't be able to make up a lie, because there were witnesses to her silence.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Yeah Swasthi...Each passing moment has been testing Ahem...His love,  his life has been struggling to live & he realised he is unable to do anything for her...today he has realised what she means to him...as he walked those steps next to her while she was being wheeled away into the operation theatre he silently pleaded her, begged her & asked her not to leave him...he told her he needed her...the unspoken words spoke volumes on what he feels for her...

Life has already given him multiple opportunites but he has utilised none...so what will he do now?
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Posted: 12 years ago
Love the analysis! Ahem is blaming himself for what has happened, he is helpless and is mind is all over the place searching for a way to save his Gopi.
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Posted: 12 years ago
This content was originally posted by-navyab

Yeah Swasthi...Each passing moment has been testing Ahem...His love,  his life has been struggling to live & he realised he is unable to do anything for her...today he has realised what she means to him...as he walked those steps next to her while she was being wheeled away into the operation theatre he silently pleaded her, begged her & asked her not to leave him...he told her he needed her...the unspoken words spoke volumes on what he feels for her...

Life has already given him multiple opportunites but he has utilised none...so what will he do now?

 
You are absolutely right he has had many opportunities and could have even created them too but had done nothing. We, the audience, have seen his strengths and weaknesses so we can critique it. He needs to realise his short comings, accept it and move forward. He is at this juncture now.
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Posted: 12 years ago
RESERVED!👏
LOVED IT!,well done Swasthi!
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Posted: 12 years ago
Loved your analysis swasthi!!!

Ahem was really tested to the limit and he could barely cope. I think the only thing which kept him going was the task at hand which he needed to full fill to save Gopi's life.

But please don't talk about death beds!! 😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
now ahem nos hes in love with his wife I want to see him talking to kanj about gopi
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Posted: 12 years ago
This content was originally posted by-sbp1971

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This is a wonderful analysis Swasthi.

Although we only saw his with her alone for few seconds, his pain when he saw her trying to fight for her life was, palpable. He felt helpless at not being able to help her.

He prides himself in achieving the impossible, but when he needs his skills the most, he is lost and helpless. He scolding himself because as a husband he gave her permission to go pat the ransom, although he promised to be her shadow, he let her go rescue Rashi on her own, his guilt, combined with realization what she is to him, is making him restless and anxious.

When he walked beside her, it did look as though he was pleading with her to hang on, and to come back to him.

At the end when his mom questioned where they will get the blood from, his anxiety and helplessness increased as him mind raced at the possibilities.

He will pray and make promises.

But when he finds out that Urmil could have helped her from the beginning I think it will send him to the edge and once Gopi is safe, he is going to blast her for not speaking up in the beginning, and this time she won't be able to make up a lie, because there were witnesses to her silence.

 
You are welcome Shilpa.
 
Yes, the way things stands now the possiblities are endless. He is realising that he will need a miracle to save her.
 
Looking forward to tomorrow's show as the situation nose dives Ahem's desperation will increase. A resolution has to come forward in any form.
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Posted: 12 years ago
This content was originally posted by-sandyuk

Love the analysis! Ahem is blaming himself for what has happened, he is helpless and is mind is all over the place searching for a way to save his Gopi.

 
Much appreciated Sandy.
 
Tomorrow's episode is quite likely to be the turning point.