Regarding all the 4 children she has been a bad mother . She has played with each childs life ..
Sachu : Initially she brought him up after she came to live there after second marraige . Mind u , when she was staying seperate in the kholi with Manav and engrossed in romance she had completely forgotten that Manav had an obligation to his dead brother's child . Manav himself had forgotten it . Later they came to live there , and She looked after him . That part was ok . But a child does not need just a nanny who gives him food and clothes on time , he needs emotional care and mother's eagle eye . Archana wud dump him on Savita and run around for days solving her maika problems which were never ending . Sometimes Sulo wud run away , sometimes Manohar was incognito sometimes Varsha was going mental ...hazaaro problems . Taking advantage of her absence , Savita started poisoning Sachu . Her ignorant way of getting back at Archana was to make that boy very angry with her . But this dame just did not notice it ...she was THAT mashgool in her baby VARSHOO .
In Sachu getting mentally messed up , as much Savita is to be blamed that much Archana is to be blamed too . She focussed on VARSHOO instead of the responsibility she undertook ...Sachu . She forgot that a child needs time of the mother too besides food and clothes . Sachu spent all time with grandma while his foster mom ran on the roads solving maika problems.
2] Soham : To this child Archana was the worst mother I would say . She constantly lent him to Varsha like a teddy bear and whenever husband Manav questioned her irritatedly she gave justifications . It is not true that Manav decided to give Soham up for adoption coz Savita told him that Archana is neglecting Sachu ...Manav had silenced Savita and connfronted Archana about this upon which Archana clearly told him I JUST CANNOT MANAGE 2 KIDS . I SIMPLY CANNOT .Also , each time she wud point out to Manav that Varsha handles Soham better than me . She knows his habits better than me .He needs her . Manav lost his temper and made the wromg decision of giving his baby up for adoption as his real mother claimed she sucked at the job . Later Real mother made a big drama at last minute and stopped the adoption and became a heroine but only coz her mommy Sulo influenced her . On her own she had no problems giving up her child .
3] Ovi and Tejaswini : The future of these two lovely girls was decided by mommy Archana even before they were born . Financial ruin for both of them by proving their father a forger in court by doing case against him by siding with chawl people . Father was booking nice flat for all of them and had offered a real good deal to those stupid chawl people but this lady suddenly became an unofficial leader and filed case against her husband for some so called principle . She never thought that if Manav is proven guilty in court , not only will he lose existing job but no other company will have a forger . He will be branded criminal for life and the children will grow up in poverty , with the tag that their Dad is a CHOR .
4] Unborn bacha who died in miscarraige : He was promised before the first trimester to Varsha . In his unborn state only . Without even asking Manav .
5] Varun who was NOT her bacha : She made satyanash of his life by influencing his mother to declare falsely that she was NOT married to Dharmesh in court . Dharmesh was saved from bigamy charges and Varun was declared illegitimate while Aniket...Archanas sister's child was declared legitimate . Archana selfishly saw that her own nephew got legitimacy at the cost of destroying a child who had cancer btw , his legitimacy in society .
So u see , ALL bachas who come in contact With Archana suffer . The problem is she loves Varsha Vaishu more than her own kids . She always says I was like MAA to them . She looks after their bhala ...and she protects THEIR interests but destroys interests of her own children .
btw prasad I totally agree with u that if a woman cannot manage her children she shud not even THINK of giving birth to them . When Soham Sachu were alone that time too Archana said I CANNOT MANAGE . That day in party too she said I CANNOT MANAGE . Nahi manage hota hai to janam kyu diya . For Party u had time to dress beautifully , look lovely , do make up etc etc . Who managed that time ? You gave ur babies to SAFE RESPONSIBLE adults like their Grandmas or Father etc na ? Even Manav once said in front of Sulochana ...your mother managed 4 kids and u cannot manage even two ?Seekho ! I CANNOT MANAGE cannot be excuse for giving kid to Varsha .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 05 December 2011 at 5:15am