Posted: 03 December 2011 at 1:28pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by prerna4rishav
Nice topic.. reserved !!
1. Well I am pretty close to my parents.. They are more like my friends
2. Yeah generally I dont hide anything from them
Dont like to hide stuffs even if it's abt falling in love with someone
And I can tell them everything becuz I know they will understand.. So basically it's becuz of them that I have the confidence in them to confide everything
Share everything with my mom.. With dad it's more like political arguments, job related issues, or practical stuffs
Emotional and personal life discussion - only with mom
Even though my mom dad keep fighting over the issue that I am closer to whom
But yeah, recently, have stopped telling them my problems in new city.. They tend to get tensed over small small issues and worry a lot.. Considering their health problems, I dont share the difficulties I face here
For those things, I take my friends' advice.. I have got AMAZING parents and friends both *touchwood*
3. I definitely dont like interference
And luckily, they dont do much
Even though I have nothing personal which they donno, but too many questions or interrogations regarding any incident pisses me off specially when there IS actually some problem and I tel them that there is not
Feel like they will catch me
These days imma shouting a lot at my mom for her over-interference and too many questions
I know it's wrong, paavam she is, doesnt have anyone with her to share her feelings except me, bt sometimes i tend to forget
Later on I say sorry to her
hey nice to c ur opinions.
the idea of not sharing ur small issues with ur parents is really good one.
and shouting and all: i hope i can suggest only one thing with my own personal experiences: try to reduce that (don't mean to hurt u) but i saw my mom feeling really very bad when i used to shout at her before marriage.
i am short tempered girl though now a lot much is gone after marriage
but if i think of those days i really feel very very bad of my behaviour. this is just a friendly suggestion