We and our Parents

Edited by vss08 - 12 years ago

Originally posted by: vss08

Hi guys! I'm Swetha!

This is my first thread in this forum. the main purpose to open this thread is to know few things.

1. how close are u with ur parents? 😊

 

Im pretty close to my folks

2. how well do u share ur feelings with ur parents (or with whom do u share ur mom / dad most)? 😉

I share pretty much everything wih my mom.. i mean.. i dont share details or if Im seeing a guy .. i wouldnt tell her that.. i dont tell her whats happening btw me and my friends or at school.. i tell her my feelingss. I share like If im upset because of something btw me and my friends..ill just tell her im upset because of something that happened btw me and my friends.. not details though.. I share feelings, thoughts, stuff like that.. and general stuff..

With my dad.. its a LOT less than that.. just school, career, etcc.. no feelings or anything..

 

but Im still close to themm i think ..

3. do u like their involvment in ur matters? (Not sure whether it is a relevant question) {and i know most of u don't like their involvment}. 😆

NOT really.. i mean personal stuff no. but if its school related than yess.. and career related MAYBE.. haha.. if they agree with me 😆 I like their advice and feeback.. i dont like their telling me to do something.. i rather them, give me their advice and leave decisions up to me.

 

u can share anything else which i may have missed? 😊

 

Let me start first answering to those questions 

Coming to me: 

1. yes iam very close to my parents. infact we are more friends than parents and daugter. 

2. there is nothing like any secrets which i didn't share with them. 

mostly i share with my mom. if i m not mistaken most of the girls share with their mom's. i'm i ri8? 

all career related and other activites related i used to share with my dad. 

3. regarding this question all i can say is when ever serious matters of simple ones i used to share with them and ask their opinion. and mostly it will be with my mom. 

Swetha

@xtaurus429x Edited by vss08 - 12 years ago

LOL If you ask my friends, I'm completely a different person around my parents. I'm sensible, innocent, and the perfect (well, I try to be, most of the times) little daughter. 

Nice topic.. reserved !!

Edited..

1. Well I am pretty close to my parents.. They are more like my friends 😳 Specially Mamma 😳

2. Yeah generally I dont hide anything from them😊 Dont like to hide stuffs even if it's abt falling in love with someone 😛 And I can tell them everything becuz I know they will understand.. So basically it's becuz of them that I have the confidence in them to confide everything 😳 Share everything with my mom.. With dad it's more like political arguments, job related issues, or practical stuffs 😳 Emotional and personal life discussion - only with mom 😳 Even though my mom dad keep fighting over the issue that I am closer to whom 😆😆

But yeah, recently, have stopped telling them my problems in new city.. They tend to get tensed over small small issues and worry a lot.. Considering their health problems, I dont share the difficulties I face here 😊 For those things, I take my friends' advice.. I have got AMAZING parents and friends both *touchwood*😳😳

3. I definitely dont like interference 😆 And luckily, they dont do much 😳 Even though I have nothing personal which they donno, but too many questions or interrogations regarding any incident pisses me off specially when there IS actually some problem and I tel them that there is not 😆 Feel like they will catch me 😆

These days imma shouting a lot at my mom for her over-interference and too many questions 😒 I know it's wrong, paavam she is, doesnt have anyone with her to share her feelings except me, bt sometimes i tend to forget 😒 Later on I say sorry to her 😒😒Edited by prerna4rishav - 12 years ago

Shweta nice topic. Will reply only after hearing from other kids.

And I belong to the other side...Am a parent.
Edited by KripaRajput - 12 years ago

WOW...finally, I got to see an interesting topic here 👍🏼 Thank you Swetha for coming up with nice topic. My answers are coming up soon 😉

Already read few fellow members answers and they worth reading 😃


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Edited by -Sabz- - 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Suvi7884

LOL If you ask my friends, I'm completely a different person around my parents. I'm sensible, innocent, and the perfect (well, I try to be, most of the times) little daughter. 

And no, I don't share my personal stuff with them, and I don't like it when they ask me too many questions, about anything, unless its quite general, like when the next school report will come out😆

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Nice topic.. reserved !!

Edited..

1. Well I am pretty close to my parents.. They are more like my friends 😳 Specially Mamma 😳

2. Yeah generally I dont hide anything from them😊 Dont like to hide stuffs even if it's abt falling in love with someone 😛 And I can tell them everything becuz I know they will understand.. So basically it's becuz of them that I have the confidence in them to confide everything 😳 Share everything with my mom.. With dad it's more like political arguments, job related issues, or practical stuffs 😳 Emotional and personal life discussion - only with mom 😳 Even though my mom dad keep fighting over the issue that I am closer to whom 😆😆

But yeah, recently, have stopped telling them my problems in new city.. They tend to get tensed over small small issues and worry a lot.. Considering their health problems, I dont share the difficulties I face here 😊 For those things, I take my friends' advice.. I have got AMAZING parents and friends both *touchwood*😳😳

3. I definitely dont like interference 😆 And luckily, they dont do much 😳 Even though I have nothing personal which they donno, but too many questions or interrogations regarding any incident pisses me off specially when there IS actually some problem and I tel them that there is not 😆 Feel like they will catch me 😆

These days imma shouting a lot at my mom for her over-interference and too many questions 😒 I know it's wrong, paavam she is, doesnt have anyone with her to share her feelings except me, bt sometimes i tend to forget 😒 Later on I say sorry to her 😒😒

Originally posted by: KripaRajput

Shweta nice topic. Will reply only after hearing from other kids.

And I belong to the other side...Am a parent.