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Posted: 01 December 2011 at 8:32pm | IP Logged
Had had Sandhya known about the voting ban in the household she would not have voted. The fault was with Suraj. If he had stopped  SAndhya there and then and told her abouth the consequences or the voting ban then I am sure sandhya would have violated the rules. Suraj in an attempt to please Sandhya could not stp her from giving her happiness and smile. 
 
THEN WHAT IS THIS HUE CRY ABOUT - ISN'T IT THE DEMOCRATIC RIGHT OF EVERYONE TO EXERCISE THEIR RIGHTS. IF YOUR ARE STOPPING SOMEONE FROM ONE MISFORTUNATE HAPPENING THEN YOU ARE VIOLATING THE HUMAN RIGHTS DECREE.

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Posted: 02 December 2011 at 5:22am | IP Logged
exactly my point, one bad incident years ago shouldnt be allowed to create such crime. yes crime, it is a crime to waste your vote, gives birth to corruption. bhago is wrong in all counts
  1. her harshness her akar is too much , she voted yes, your sone took her , why didnt he have to bear any punishment, why only bahu?
  2. and even if horrible memory and you are scared that any bad might happen that still doesnt give you any right ot dish out such inhumane treatment because you feel you have to break her spirit. who are you to do that?
  3. the anger was not at her voting but rather at her not asking forgivness, why does everything have to be about you?
  4. she wanting to break her spirit to ensure that she never goes out of her bounds, who has set her bounds, who gave you the right to do so?
  5. And her breaknig the roti please i don t even count that as a soft side and her showing a golden heart. i feel they have made her too strict and really worth hating.

she feels her birth right to exert her views, fine she must have done a lot for the family she must have faced difficult times, but the way she is with her bahus she isnt with her daughter her son. she can insult anyone becoz she is thesaas and they are relatives of bahus? i have hardly seen any of the moments that actually make me like her. she expects her bahus to respect her hubby, does she see how she talks to her bubby like a piece of grabage, fine he is no hero, yes but then she must alos be open that if her bahu finds her son to be beneath her choice and trats him the same how will she feel.

i really wish someone could set bhago striaght, i wish sandya had said i understand yuopur fear but  it is our right to vote,m we owe it to the country. she should have put forward her point of view. so if i go by her action it seems oh m sorry i ddnt know you were agianst votes as of the incident now i wont vote!! 
 
if the cvs wanted to set a hitler sort woman who is strict for a reson they have gone overboard with the potrayl. i used ot watch baa bahu and baby, baa used to be very fair and strict but many times when she did some punishmenty she always explianed the reson and even admitted when wrong, that is why she lovable. bhago is arrogant, concenited, small hearted and mean , she wants to rule the bahus as trophys and lovesonly suraj it seems.
i feel they really need to work on her character sketch more if htey dont want her to be nominatedi n fav villian. i cant see her as a fav mom, patni or even saas yet.

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Posted: 02 December 2011 at 11:01am | IP Logged
nice post leo Thumbs Up (u r a leo Big smile) ...(do u watch sns leo ? Wink reply)
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Posted: 02 December 2011 at 11:40am | IP Logged

Yup n i feel bhago is heavily inspired from koki, only gopi can sometimes be irritating n even i feel like whacking her. :) even kokis character was mellowed down after a while if u watch starting of sns n now.

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Posted: 02 December 2011 at 1:37pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by leo4ever


Yup n i feel bhago is heavily inspired from koki, only gopi can sometimes be irritating n even i feel like whacking her. :) even kokis character was mellowed down after a while if u watch starting of sns n now.

Kokila is always right and she is as strict with her own children as she is with bahus. she deciplines her children unlike bhaboo.
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Posted: 02 December 2011 at 8:24pm | IP Logged
I beg to differ with some of the above comments against Bhabo.  I actually don't think Bhabo is a Hitler...well not totally. LOL
 
You have to remember that Bhabo is not an educated person, and was married when she was like 16.  She herself had a very strict saas, so you can get an idea as to the kind of upbringing she had.  Still she is a very intelligent and very hard working woman.
 
Her behavior towards her family is partly due to the fact that her family (except for Suraj) is full of liars, cheats, and free loaders.  Her kids are all grown up, so she can't take a stick to them like she could if they were 10 years old...so instead she resorts to running her house with strict discipline and a sharp tongue.
 
She's not cold-hearted though...not even with Meena.  Remember, how she was walking upstairs with her arthritic legs to give Meena a glass of water, because she was supposed to clean out the upstairs.  Instead she found Kaam-chor Meena napping in the sun.  She did what I would have done too...threw the water in her face for the dhoka LOL.
 
Even when she punished Sandhiya, you could see sympathy in Bhabo's eyes for her.  She could see that her bahu was in pain and Bhabo was clearly not enjoying punishing her.  In her own words she's not a Jalat.  Sandhiya is still new, so Bhabo is still testing the waters with her.
 
Vikram was right when he said Sandhiya is another version of Bhabo.  They both are very strong and determined women...and yes, at times... they both can be stubborn too
 
I am so proud of Sandhiya for taking the plate of food for Bhabo and apologizing.  And I loved it when Bhabo saw that Sandhiya was in pain, and broke the roti into small bits for her.
 
These 2 will learn to accomodate each other...and they'll make a rocking Saas Bahu team, after all Suraj knows how to fry the samosas and Jalebi in the same oil Wink.   


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Posted: 03 December 2011 at 12:04am | IP Logged
These 2 will learn to get accomodate each other...and they'll make a rocking Saas Bahu team, after all Suraj knows how to fry the samosas and Jalebi in the same oil Clap
 
 
@ummesulaiman:  Nice post.  I like Bhabho and all other characters of the show.  Waiting for the day, when Bhabho supports Sandhya to achieve her dream.

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Posted: 03 December 2011 at 12:53am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by leo4ever


Yup n i feel bhago is heavily inspired from koki, only gopi can sometimes be irritating n even i feel like whacking her. :) even kokis character was mellowed down after a while if u watch starting of sns n now.

Kokila is always right and she is as strict with her own children as she is with bahus. she deciplines her children unlike bhaboo.


i started watching sns from kinjal's marriage only & a few things i read from the 'story updated'  ...but IMO bhabho is far better when compared to kokila LOL coz of many reasons though she has mellowed down now (which is mainly coz now she is cent percent sure gopi will not be a screen between ahem and herself LOL) ...bhabho atleast has some guilt while punishing sandhya/meena but kokila never & bhabho may reform but koki never coz former has sandhya whereas latter has doormat gopi LOL

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