Originally posted by tanvismile
A has earned the love throughout years bt g isnt asking the same treatment bt atleast a human treatment dat she deserves to get ,she got hatred frm al the members,the treatment given was of a homebreaker ,she never ruined A Life ,it was much ruined 4 yrs before.may its society who blames women for everything.It is natural tendency for a person to revolt back when she is unnecesarily accused.
I normally try to avoid confronting pro-Gauri posts, but you do make an interesting point here, so couldn't resist.
U do agree that Anandi earned her share of love and respect thru time with this family and Gauri cannot automatically expect it. that is Good !
It is also true that Gauri behaved nice with everyone on her first trip and didn't not see her smiles reciprocated which hurt her. U see Gauri's effort and her hurt, but do you try to see how hurt the family was feeling due to Jagya's act ?
The family was super mad at Jagya for coming there and flaunting his brand new city wife in everyone's face and not caring two hoots for any of there feelings - including Anandi. The family was punishing Jagya by treating him like a doctor and a house guest - they were again n again referring to him even thru servants as a "GUEST" who is denied the privilege of a family member - example - eating with the others.
Jagya saw his insult and the reason and kept quiet - he did not confront it coz he knew he had caused a lot of hurt. and also coz he is a coward. Gauri also is a smart intelligent woman - U agree ? She SAW what they were doing to Jagya. She SAW that all her efforts at trying to be pally with the others were not working coz they wanted to maintain a distance with both JAGYA and his NEW "WIFE"...
Why did she continue to persist ? Being intelligent, shud she not have seen that the family was upset ? Shud she not have realized that they needed time to accept her maybe ? They were not even informed or invited to the wedding and she expected them to do all her "NEW BAHU RASAMS" ?
Tanvi - U have to agree - Gauri went a little too far, too soon. She shud hv waited n tried to let them get to know her a little OVER A COUPLE OF MONTHS atleast !!!. she wanted everything and she raged and screamed and was a complete out-of-control-freak !! G instead of endearing herself to even a single person, ended up alienating everyone by her irresponsible behaviour.