selfish kaki selfish beti (Page 4)

 

My mother also loves me but never ever allowed me to do anything which hurts others. one eg from my life. My sister loved a boy whom she met in train. THey conveyed their feeling to their own parents. After that they became very close to each other but after two years of relationship one girl called us and said that she is the girlfriend of my sister's boyfriend. everything just changed. My sis asked her bf regarding it atfirst he lied but later afetr presurring conveyed that they were about to marry when he met my sister and found her more suitable. After lots of meetings, quarrels , discussions my sister decided to be with him. He even said that he loves only my sister and will always remain loyal to her . But his parents refused to accept my sister. Here my mother made my sister understand the importance of life, marriage, family acceptance. She said my sister to think about that girl who also was mentally prepared to marry him and that how much she must be hurt and that my sister should first of all talk to that girl clear the things up and then try to convince the boys parents if things between the girl , the boy and my sister is cleared, only then my  sister can marry the boy of her choice. Until then my parents didnot give their consent neither fall for the boy promise ( as his words were like that of J) My mother evry moment made her think all the sides before decideing, made her mentally strong. After this my sister refused to marry him till everything is settled. After four years of wait when finally the girl got settled in her life with another boy and all the members of the boy's family accepted my sisand he fulfilled all the conditions in order to earn love and respect from my parents then only my parents married them off.

 

Here i want to say that if one wants to be strong he or she can be . A mother's role should be like this think about your daughter but at the same time also thing about others.

 

Soory for such a long post.