thats what i am trying to saying, guari is not the victim, usne bhi yehi action kara hain that she is now in a mess.
i didnt bring in the breaking issue, it has nothing to do with the topic v true, but making guari seem a victim to make her seem unslefish is not right also . you may like guari, i am nuetral about all characters and that is why i never want a jag gauri breakup or a jag anandi reunion. rather i want a clear new start for them.
but seeing from a nuetral point of view, at fsrt gauri fell in jag trap, she belived him and succumbed to her love, however she didnt feel that when for her the rejection of bal vivah is so strong then anandi will feel more pain ( i even get it that none cares for others upon own self fine, excuse her for that) i excuse her gloating that i am the leagl wife i have the haq to be his wife, i am yours she is parayi let her go, what i dont excuse is knowing that the marriage is illegal she is living with someones husband. and that is where both jagat and guari made a mistake, too much haste, they could have annulled marriage, there are ways of divorce where the reson be mutual and it gets granted without giving proff of jag gauri marriage. jab bribe de kar shadi karsakte hai tou bribe de kar divorce b lesakete hai. they never apprached anandi, jag could ask one last favor from anandi for hsi kid and she will do that also. but they both are forgetting it again
so now the condition of both of them is becoz they didnt wait, they were swept by ther emotions and now have kid on the way!! i am in no way blaming gauri for braking jag anandi marriage, no , like i said before marriage cant be broken if it really strong, they were already problems. i just have a prob with guari painting slef as a victim. her mom i think doesnt know the leaglity issue but guari knowlingly walked into it.
i personally believe jo decison lia stick to it, gauri knowing that she is the second women knowing that marriage is illegal continued to live with a married man ,jag knowinghas no finances of own to support a wife, continued to think idealistically and have a livein relationship.
so they both need to bear the mess with full responsiblity.