Originally posted by tanvismile
Who did the mistake n who is getting blamed,the picture is dat kareena shuld be blamed for maring saif Becoz he had maried amrita ,gauri never knew jagya anandi past,no one is responsible for anandi pain .except her parents,society.
will go by your example only : saif divorced amrita n then kareena is with saif . also saif being a muslim can keep more than a wife at the same time, jagya cant. anadi has no role in this at all.
when guari found out about the lie, she could have refused to get married, she fell for bal vivah and got married, i can excuse that ( only upar se ) however when she found out that legally anadi is still jagyas wife, and their marriage doesnt exist, will not be accepted, she after tantraums returned to living with him, sharing the bed. without any consequences!! she is also educated she could have said i dont believe you when you say k dil se tou hamra rishta ha samj se kia hota hai. i will not stay with you till you marry me legally. why not? she knowingly that she will always be the other woman, her marriage is not recognised in court , for all she got into it the second time! had she stood up for her self respect , i would have applauded her, rather she is a now ok with being the illegal wife, occasionally bringing it up to guilt her husband
guari for me is not the victim nor is jagya, both are equally to blame for the siutuation. there are ways to take divorce without getting into a case, they could have hid jag gauri marriage, got divorced wit anandi citing mutaul reasons, marry gauri again. that would be the sensible and mature thing to do , that would show that education gives you a broader vision. rather living in denial n going in circles without a thought of your own slef respect, the consequnces of the illegal rista !
guari now understands the insecurity that anadi felt for the years jag cheated her , the agony of being the dosri aurat that both the mom n daughter keep forgetting who is actually the dosri aurat. i have not forgiven jag , nor i see myslef doing so, but nowhere do i see guari and her mom as victims and nor can forgive guari . she is equally responsible for the mess she is in.
singh family, anandis family and gauris parents are the main culprits for starting the mess , however i see the singh family and anandi family repenting and making ammends , so easier to forgive. gauri parents have manged to escape the hate of their daughter, they still potray self as victims, no repentence no forgiveness