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sweet freedom IF-Dazzler
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Posted: 13 February 2006 at 2:48pm | IP Logged
it depends how they became yr ex...right
Misfit_ Goldie
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Posted: 13 February 2006 at 6:09pm | IP Logged
It's different for each situation, and every person. Through personal experience, and what I've seen--going from a romantic relationship to one of just platonic friendship is difficult if not impossible, because in most cases, the breakup is not mutual.
sowmyaa IF-Dazzler
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Posted: 13 February 2006 at 7:00pm | IP Logged
Well, I would say in either case if it was mutual breakoff or it it was hurting breakoff I personally think it's hard to remain as friends...you always have that little possessiveness towards that X. I think to meet everyday and just be friend can be really hard no matter how you got seperated.
MS.ATTITUDE Goldie
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Posted: 13 February 2006 at 9:21pm | IP Logged
tx to all of u

ys mine ws da hurtin breakoff n we rnt together nymore n yes still wheneva we try to b cordial wid eachother , we ended up arguin abt who ws wrong n who ws ryt.Im v confused cuz he said let's b JUS frnds n if nt than we both shd stop talkin.

now wt shd i do?
Aparna_BD IF-Dazzler
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Posted: 13 February 2006 at 10:48pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by MS.ATTITUDE

tx to all of u

ys mine ws da hurtin breakoff n we rnt together nymore n yes still wheneva we try to b cordial wid eachother , we ended up arguin abt who ws wrong n who ws ryt.Im v confused cuz he said let's b JUS frnds n if nt than we both shd stop talkin.

now wt shd i do?


If it hurts so bad . Its better to cut of that umblical cord for good . Clean break . Start afresh !! I know its very difficult , but time is a great healer .
You will hurt a lot ..........but trust me time heals even the worst of wounds !
tanushree Senior Member
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Posted: 14 February 2006 at 4:39am | IP Logged
Yes exs can be friends. i am friends with both my ex guys n also their wives. its important to give it b lil break so that feelings are sorted out at both ends n then move on.

Initially its a bit tough to handle all the complications, either side may try n get back but if u decide on to someyhing then just stick to it.

one of my exs kept trying to patch up but its best to politley yet firmly say no. takes a while but they start to respect you n ur decision.

so basically give it a lil break. but never expect things to be as friendly as before!
Majority IF-Dazzler
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Posted: 14 February 2006 at 4:51am | IP Logged
Originally posted by MS.ATTITUDE

plz replyy cuz dis is nt jus a thread ?i need suggestionsssss Confused


Since you are seeking advice and suggestion, mine is that you do what your heart tells you to.
sowmyaa IF-Dazzler
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Posted: 14 February 2006 at 5:24am | IP Logged
I totally agree with Aparna...well said aparna. Just cut the cord for good.... its not good to put your feet in both "dahi an dodh"...really

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