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MS.ATTITUDE Goldie
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Posted: 13 February 2006 at 12:22pm | IP Logged
yes frnds,,, can ur X bf or gf b ur JUS frnds?

        OR

once lovers can't b JUS frnds again?

MS.ATTITUDE Goldie
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Posted: 13 February 2006 at 12:47pm | IP Logged
plz replyy cuz dis is nt jus a thread ?i need suggestionsssss Confused
ashley1 Senior Member
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Posted: 13 February 2006 at 12:56pm | IP Logged
Beleive me, I treid it over & over again, for almost 5 years, & it doesn't happen. No matter how hard you try, if the love is real, it will always come between your friendly relationship. So, the best way to live is if the relationship with the X didn't work out, forget him forever, & move forward in life. Or else, you won't reach or go anywhere as your mind will keep returning to that unsuccessful relationship.
As a result, if you two were lovers, just be lovers forever because freindship is a different relationship. Lovers can never be friends but friends can be lovers.

Edited by ashley1 - 13 February 2006 at 2:10pm
MS.ATTITUDE Goldie
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Posted: 13 February 2006 at 1:00pm | IP Logged
thx ashlyyyy so sweet of u Smile
MS.ATTITUDE Goldie
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Posted: 13 February 2006 at 1:34pm | IP Logged
ny other suggestions??
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Posted: 13 February 2006 at 2:10pm | IP Logged
it depends on the person and the nature of the break-up, really. If your ex is mature and willing to remain friends with you even after your break-up, then its highly possible. Also If the break-up was on mutual terms - a friendly break-up, then its also possible.

it also depends on how understanding your current bf/gf is. its not great if your friendship with your ex creates misunderstandings/problems in your current relationship. though, that can be taken care of by clearly explaining the nature of your relationship with your ex.
ashley1 Senior Member
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Posted: 13 February 2006 at 2:12pm | IP Logged
Sorry, read the BluePrint again. It was incorrect before. I just updated it.
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Posted: 13 February 2006 at 2:22pm | IP Logged
In my personal experience and experience of my friends who've had an ex its not easy to stay on friendly terms with an ex . There are too many hard feelings between the two who didn't make it !!

And when you have the new love in your life , one ends up seeing friction on the "ex" issue with the new love of your life .

In the long run , it just doesn't work out !!

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