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Posted: 17 March 2012 at 11:55pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by EroticGauravMad

Smile Life is to short.  If someone makes a big mistake, most of us forgive.  But, there are some who don't and years go by before something happens.  Do you believe in forgiving or not?  Is it the end of the world?  Most of the times, things can be sorted and we all move on.  But, it can get complicated.
 
To FORGIVE or not?  Please share your thoughts.
 
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Sometimes, you forgive people simply because you still want them in your life...but the problem I forgive and forget, becos I have a good heart, and a terrible memory!Ouch
 

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Posted: 18 March 2012 at 12:13am | IP Logged
I don't think its humanly possible to forgive and forget...people like to think that they have forgiven and forgotten but I doubt if it really happens...the grudge always remains...trust is a very delicate bond and once its broken for whatever reason ...the damage is irrepairable...so I don't think that forgiving and forgetting completely is possible...atleast not for me...if someone has hurt me...i might try to forgive them but that relationship is never the same again...

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Posted: 18 March 2012 at 12:16am | IP Logged
My advice - Forgive and make sure the other person and everyone else around knows about it.

Then start plotting your revenge to catch your target off guard.
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Posted: 18 March 2012 at 6:32am | IP Logged
Strange as it may sound I think it is easier to forgive strangers than someone we are very close to.

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Posted: 18 March 2012 at 10:49am | IP Logged
See if i cant forget what someone did and it stays in my heart i dont see the point of saying i forgive you, where in actual fact forgivness works hand in hand with your heart and soul, you forgive and you forget and move on and allow them back in your life like refreshed with no bruises. That isn't possible with me.

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Posted: 18 March 2012 at 11:12am | IP Logged
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Strange as it may sound I think it is easier to forgive strangers than someone we are very close to.
I don't think its strange...it makes perfect sense...we don't have any love, trust, bond, expectations from a stranger...it hurts more when your own with whom u share love, trust and bonds hurt you...thats why its difficult to forgive them...

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Posted: 18 March 2012 at 12:18pm | IP Logged
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Originally posted by zorrro

Strange as it may sound I think it is easier to forgive strangers than someone we are very close to.
I don't think its strange...it makes perfect sense...we don't have any love, trust, bond, expectations from a stranger...it hurts more when your own with whom u share love, trust and bonds hurt you...thats why its difficult to forgive them...
that means more difficult to forgive if hurt, easier to forgive  if not hurt ... Geek

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