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Is emotion so easily transferable? (Page 2)

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Mystica I agree 100% with u abt Jassi's infatuation with Armaan fading away…and all these questions about how easily Jassi can get over Armaan has only one explanation: that she was infatuated with him.


So far we are just speculating on what we feel are the reasons behind Jassi's capitulation with the marriage scheme but the facts are unknown to us……Who knows maybe Jassi has figured out that she has some feelings for Purab….every relationship is based on trust and this is present in P&J's case….

in the caf, before Mr. Smirk interrupted their conversation, jassi was abt to tell Purab something…..could that have had something to do with this issue…

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nice to have u on board SowmyaSmile
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I dont know why you all are obbssed with the idea that jassi should love purab before marriage??

I mean Even after marraige she is going to endup in love with purab for he is such a nice person(no body can afford not loving him!). And as soon as she gets more time together(marriage will give them that time) to see his love and affection for her, I am sure she will realise that purab is just more than a friend. i.e how arrange marraiges work right, two people know very little about each other forget friends. But when they are put together and they feel the same for each other they love each other and that is how they stay happy.

Its all about understanding each others feeling and needs and then to understand your spouse and keep her/him happy!!

I belive we should never forget the quote. "Never marry the person you like( Your likes will change with times). But try and marry the person who loves you, for then he might keep you happy no matter what!! "

And Guy's its clear that Purab loves Jassi!! and she too likes him as a friend and who knows maybe she has feeling for him in her heart but she is supressing them thinking that "She is just a friend, and the feelings are that of a friend"  or maybe she is saying no for as of now she is more worried about Gulmohar!! I belive on Monday she will anounce her wedding with Purab, But she will not say the date, I belive she will say that she will marry purab after her term as a CEO ends with Gulmohar and she has achived that goal!!

I Think if she gets married to purab now its nothing wrong. But it just wont be the right time for now she is the CEO of Gulmohar & that will create unwanted tension in her marraige from the start. I belive she should anounce and tie the knot once her term at gulmohar ends and she joins purab in his company. Purab had before also given idea that how much he respects her buisness sense when he wanted to buy Gulmohar for her.

Jammy.

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Well said, Jammy.
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Posted: 09 October 2004 at 3:55pm | IP Logged
Jammy what u said is very true.....

correct me if I'm wrong here, but the issue isnt that Jassi should be hopelessly in love with P before they tie the knot......we do however want to see that she does realise she has deeper feelings for him....even if those r feelings u have for a good friend....I guess we want her to realize that their relationship is different than what she has with any of her other friends....
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Posted: 09 October 2004 at 5:46pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by jammy

I belive we should never forget the quote. "Never marry the person you like( Your likes will change with times). But try and marry the person who loves you, for then he might keep you happy no matter what!! "


True, we can change our mind about what we like. And sometimes, just liking something does not justify bad decisions. For instance, if you like a jerk who is arrogant, selfish, uncaring, manipulative, while you cannot change your feelings, but one would hope that your judgement, experience, and maybe common sense would help guide you to make an appropriate decision rather than blindly act on those feelings.

Having said that, I feel that we cannot live life in fear either. To not do something, or not be with someone we like now just for fear that we might change our mind later does not make sense. Look at our lives, the decisions we've made: the major we choose in college, our career, our job, the friends we choose, the clothes we buy, etc - would we be happy if they were not based on what we like. And yes, we may change our mind. But how much would we be missing out on if we let that possibility (which may not even happen) paralyze us. Besides, if you can change your mind, is there any guarantee that the person who loves you won't. And then, not only will you have lost that person, but you will never know what it would have been like had you taken the chance to be with the one you loved. There is another quote too: "it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" There are no guarantees in life. But don't let that stop you from living, from risking. Cocoons can be comfortable, but insects eventually have to burst out of them, or they'd atrophy. So go ahead, take a chance.
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well said alle and jammy. in real life , emotions create havoc in your life if u let them, try to justify them and they lose thier potency, i am not saying you musn't be emotional but a good sense with it is definately required.

     they say love does not know caste, creed , social station......etc etc. if you fall in love with some one from a different age group(40 yrs old guy with a family to boot) or you fall in love with a criminal(it could happen, they are human too), will you act on it, or will you leave it at that and look for love a second time.

      also in real life friendship, love, obsessions, crush, lust .......there are these numerous feelings and unfortunately they all feel more or less the same (in a short period of time). it is very tough to draw lines or categorize them. friends hai par love nahi hai......love hai par obsessed nahin hai......

     the point i was trying to make was feeling are important but they can mislead you depending on your mental state, friend circle, peer behaviour etc, you need to exercise you brain along with it. and yes it is possible to change the object of your affection given a little time and how your new love stakes up against the last one and how requited your last love was.



Edited by pj04 - 09 October 2004 at 6:12pm
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well said Alle, pjClapClap

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