Originally posted by -Rinky-
Ok i will reply to Sabah and Revathy together...
what if the person you are friends with share NO quality you are looking in a life partner? does the when did he look so good moments matter as well? i do have male freinds about whom i never thought beyond friendship...its another thing they never found me attractive...π€£
But I do believe and I have seen such friendships where people chose friendship over the lust part...cause it was too precious to loose...
@bold...I don't like the word lust, let me stick with the term attraction, rinky the moment one of them finds themselves attracted to the other person, the friendship is no longer platonic, I mean u cannot deny or control what you have felt, even if they have decided to put it behind them for the sake of friendship.
@blue...you may not be exactly looking to find a life partner in your friend, the question is even for a split second, if the thought crosses your mind, would you be able put it aside as if it is not a big deal π. go figure