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Posted: 13 November 2011 at 10:10am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by azuria

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 I totally agree with you, Orianthi! I think that their friendship has crossed the limits of decency, especially when he dragged Neelu into his house leaving Runhjun outside. I don't know if it is anything more embarrassing for a married woman than what happened to Runhjun in that night. Seeing the  tensioned situation between Guddu and Runhjun, Neelu should have never accepted to stay in that house while Runhjun was left outside. It is an unwritten low that says that when your are in the middle of a familial conflict, you excuse yourself the best way you can and leave them alone to solve their problems. 


I have a harder time with Runjhuns behaviour. She leaves Guddu but still wants her wifely rights and respect? Just because her amma is still living at Guddus place she thinks that she can decides what is done in that house or not?

I dont like how amma and Runjhun makes differen between their family ie Pandeys and others. Runjhun is not generous. She is only generous to her mama mami. She agreed to let Neelu stay since she had already met Neelu and got a picture of her as being a different person then she thought.

I have a hard time with that Runjhun leaves Guddu and then has the guts to go and say to Neelu to keep away from Guddu since he is her husband? And that it is Neelu who is tempting Guddu?

No I dont like Runjhuns behaviour. As a human she should have stood by her husband about Neelu staying when her mama mami were apposing him. But she did not.

Lets see where all this takes us.

And it is just my opinion for just now it may change. But you may disagree with me.

Hi Azuria!

 Rujhun has never left Guddu. She went to stay a time with her family. Even if they had no house and were bad people, it was her natural right to see them. People have relatives in jail for the most horrible crimes and the state still gives them the right to visit them. Guddu had no right to stop her from seeing them. He abused his rights as a husband. He can be all modern and have a modern friendship with a girl and sleep on her bed, while Runhjun should have blindly obeyed her husband like we're living in the Middle Age! I don't think so!
 They had a fight and she went to live with her relatives! This is something that happens in almost every marriage when the couple is still very young. This doesn't mean that it is the end of their marriage and more than anything didn't give Guddu the right to bring an other woman in their house and let her in their matrimonial bedroom or to let her to use his wife's cloths. Ask any married woman and she will tell you that she will feel insulted if her husband does what Guddu did to Runhjun after just one fight! There will probably be other fights in their live, but this doesn't mean that every time that this is happening, he will have the right to go to bars and see dancing girls! 
 Runhjun was gone only for two days while she constantly called him and even came back to take care of him! And only after two days, he went to a bar! He acted like a spoiled child and blew out of proportion a loneliness that it was only in his head. 
 
 Edit: About Neelu, Runhju had all the right to go and tell Neelu those things! People may not like to hear this, but in realty there are many married men who ruined their married life because of dancers, they spend their money there while maybe at home his children don't have enough food. The prisons are full of criminals who say the same story: our father left me and my mother for an other woman, we had no money so I started to steal, one thing lead to an other and here I am!


@ Azuria- Runhun was a lot more kind to Guddu & Nilu than a lot of women would be.  Yes she reacted quite harshly the 1st time time she spoke to Nilu but then after that she was quite nice to her.  After her 1st confrontation w/Nilu, not even once did she even try to persuade Nilu to leave LN or kick Nilu out of LN.  She also didn't try to persuade Guddu to let her leave the house.  Even whatever her dear amma & M & M's , especially Kalsonwali said after her 1st confrontation w/Nilu didn't phase her- she kept her belief that she shouldn't jump to negative conclusions about Nilu.  Runjhun was quite submissive to Guddu after she started living in Devan's house.  She so didn't even try hard w/getting her wifely rights & respect.  Heck, she didn't even say anything back to Guddu when Guddu roughly got her hand off his arm & her hand started bleeding for example.  The only thing I can think of is her performing Kauva Chaut (she had the right to perform this sacred ritual) & tellin' him to break her fast & after he returned quite late from spending time w/Nilu & she ended up fainting, she  didn't even show any anger towards him.  Instead, she talked all lovingly to him w/the first thing she said to him after she fainted being u take really good care of me- to Runjhun- well he didn't take too good care of u today but I agree w/u, before he relapsed after u left him to take care of the M & M's & your cousins, he did take good care of u so I don't blame u for saying thatLOL.        


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Posted: 13 November 2011 at 10:28am | IP Logged
Totally in agreement with you  edabella Runjhun is so compassionate and merciful even to the most cruel unlike Guddu who could be unforgiving at times.

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Posted: 13 November 2011 at 12:24pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Ishana-

True!
I still wonder how the hell Guddu ended up meeting Nilu?
Cuz he was never into women and all that...

Also however we may twist and turn it Nilu IS a cheap woman!
She calls herself an 'artist' but dances for drunk men!
She wants to 'bring Guddu&Runjhun together' but lures Guddu towards herself!
Remember the Munni Badnaam episode when Guddu went to the bar and came home then GuNjhun had their MASSIVE argument and Runjhun called Nilu a bar dancer?
I still dont know why Guddu yelled at Runjhun cause thats what Nilu is!
Shes a cheap woman with loose morals !!!

  Ishana, it looks like Neelu and Guddu are childhood friends, probably their parents were friends or they're living in the same neighborhood. 
 But still I find it strange that they are such good friends because Neelu seems to be the expression of everything that Guddu hates: she lies, she thinks that it is OK to emotional blackmail someone, she is a backstabber, she says one thing and does the opposite. For sure, she is a girl with who you can play and have a lot of fun, but still she has a weak character. Maybe Guddu and Neelu were the only children in the neighborhood and they had no choice, but to be friends with each other.

 Red: I was asking myself the same thing, why did he react like that when Runjhun actually said the truth and he even wanted to hit her!

 

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Posted: 13 November 2011 at 12:57pm | IP Logged
You are absolutely right. Neelu is totally opposite to Runjhun. Runjhun is benevolent, merciful, sincere, naive and candid while Neelu on the other hand is egocentric, unforgiving, dishonest, conniving and surreptitious. Most men are captivated by women like Neelu because of their charisma. It  takes Neelu a few seconds to seduce a man. Look at how long it took Guddu to accept Runjhun thirty days in contrast to Neelu which was but just only a day or two.

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Posted: 13 November 2011 at 2:06pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Surish

You are absolutely right. Neelu is totally opposite to Runjhun. Runjhun is benevolent, merciful, sincere, naive and candid while Neelu on the other hand is egocentric, unforgiving, dishonest, conniving and surreptitious. Most men are captivated by women like Neelu because of their charisma. It  takes Neelu a few seconds to seduce a man. Look at how long it took Guddu to accept Runjhun thirty days in contrast to Neelu which was but just only a day or two.

 Surish, I totally agree with you. Neelu and Runhjun are very different! Runjhun has a strong character and she can offer Guddu stability which seems that is what he search the most. He wants someone to stand by his side in good times and in bad times. And that's what Runhjun did. She was there for him when his mother was sick, when he was drunk, when he was angry, when he built the Mobile Center, when he had his accident and in all the good moments that they shared together. 
 Even recently, when he didn't let her into the house, she was still there begging him to take her back. He kept telling her to let him to live his life in pace, but it would have killed him inside if she had given up on trying to obtain his forgiveness. It was like he was pushing her limits to see how much she can resist. And no matter how drunk and how angry he was, no matter how rude he was with her, she was still there, at the gates of their house waiting for him to let her in.  
 While, Neelu sees him from time to time and he can not count on her because she thinks to herself first of all and changes her mind all the time according to the most convenient situation for her. Maybe Guddu and Neelu can have fun together, but for sure Guddu can not see her as a lifetime partner. 
 From what they've been talking, Guddu and Neelu may had a teenage crush for each other, nothing serious. Maybe Neelu left him to go and become and a dancer and this can be one of the reasons for which Guddu is so afraid to be abandon, but for sure right now he got over such feelings for her and sees her as his friend only and knowing his caring nature he will not walk away from her now that she is in trouble, even if she lies about her pregnancy. 


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To Guddu Neelu is like a sister as Kukkan a brother and Runjhun his lover. Since Neelu is so manipulative she will lure him into accepting the child as is own but this will not change the fact that he loves Runjhun as his wife. However, at the same time, Runjhun will be driven apart from him as he has betrayed her trust.



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Posted: 13 November 2011 at 5:01pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by edabella

Originally posted by etna

Originally posted by azuria

Originally posted by etna

 I totally agree with you, Orianthi! I think that their friendship has crossed the limits of decency, especially when he dragged Neelu into his house leaving Runhjun outside. I don't know if it is anything more embarrassing for a married woman than what happened to Runhjun in that night. Seeing the  tensioned situation between Guddu and Runhjun, Neelu should have never accepted to stay in that house while Runhjun was left outside. It is an unwritten low that says that when your are in the middle of a familial conflict, you excuse yourself the best way you can and leave them alone to solve their problems. 


I have a harder time with Runjhuns behaviour. She leaves Guddu but still wants her wifely rights and respect? Just because her amma is still living at Guddus place she thinks that she can decides what is done in that house or not?

I dont like how amma and Runjhun makes differen between their family ie Pandeys and others. Runjhun is not generous. She is only generous to her mama mami. She agreed to let Neelu stay since she had already met Neelu and got a picture of her as being a different person then she thought.

I have a hard time with that Runjhun leaves Guddu and then has the guts to go and say to Neelu to keep away from Guddu since he is her husband? And that it is Neelu who is tempting Guddu?

No I dont like Runjhuns behaviour. As a human she should have stood by her husband about Neelu staying when her mama mami were apposing him. But she did not.

Lets see where all this takes us.

And it is just my opinion for just now it may change. But you may disagree with me.

Hi Azuria!

 Rujhun has never left Guddu. She went to stay a time with her family. Even if they had no house and were bad people, it was her natural right to see them. People have relatives in jail for the most horrible crimes and the state still gives them the right to visit them. Guddu had no right to stop her from seeing them. He abused his rights as a husband. He can be all modern and have a modern friendship with a girl and sleep on her bed, while Runhjun should have blindly obeyed her husband like we're living in the Middle Age! I don't think so!
 They had a fight and she went to live with her relatives! This is something that happens in almost every marriage when the couple is still very young. This doesn't mean that it is the end of their marriage and more than anything didn't give Guddu the right to bring an other woman in their house and let her in their matrimonial bedroom or to let her to use his wife's cloths. Ask any married woman and she will tell you that she will feel insulted if her husband does what Guddu did to Runhjun after just one fight! There will probably be other fights in their live, but this doesn't mean that every time that this is happening, he will have the right to go to bars and see dancing girls! 
 Runhjun was gone only for two days while she constantly called him and even came back to take care of him! And only after two days, he went to a bar! He acted like a spoiled child and blew out of proportion a loneliness that it was only in his head. 
 
 Edit: About Neelu, Runhju had all the right to go and tell Neelu those things! People may not like to hear this, but in realty there are many married men who ruined their married life because of dancers, they spend their money there while maybe at home his children don't have enough food. The prisons are full of criminals who say the same story: our father left me and my mother for an other woman, we had no money so I started to steal, one thing lead to an other and here I am!


@ Azuria- Runhun was a lot more kind to Guddu & Nilu than a lot of women would be.  Yes she reacted quite harshly the 1st time time she spoke to Nilu but then after that she was quite nice to her.  After her 1st confrontation w/Nilu, not even once did she even try to persuade Nilu to leave LN or kick Nilu out of LN.  She also didn't try to persuade Guddu to let her leave the house.  Even whatever her dear amma & M & M's , especially Kalsonwali said after her 1st confrontation w/Nilu didn't phase her- she kept her belief that she shouldn't jump to negative conclusions about Nilu.  Runjhun was quite submissive to Guddu after she started living in Devan's house.  She so didn't even try hard w/getting her wifely rights & respect.  Heck, she didn't even say anything back to Guddu when Guddu roughly got her hand off his arm & her hand started bleeding for example.  The only thing I can think of is her performing Kauva Chaut (she had the right to perform this sacred ritual) & tellin' him to break her fast & after he returned quite late from spending time w/Nilu & she ended up fainting, she  didn't even show any anger towards him.  Instead, she talked all lovingly to him w/the first thing she said to him after she fainted being u take really good care of me- to Runjhun- well he didn't take too good care of u today but I agree w/u, before he relapsed after u left him to take care of the M & M's & your cousins, he did take good care of u so I don't blame u for saying thatLOL.        
I agree completely @edabella! Big smileClap

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