Originally posted by azuria
Originally posted by etna
I totally agree with you, Orianthi! I think that their friendship has crossed the limits of decency, especially when he dragged Neelu into his house leaving Runhjun outside. I don't know if it is anything more embarrassing for a married woman than what happened to Runhjun in that night. Seeing the tensioned situation between Guddu and Runhjun, Neelu should have never accepted to stay in that house while Runhjun was left outside. It is an unwritten low that says that when your are in the middle of a familial conflict, you excuse yourself the best way you can and leave them alone to solve their problems.
I have a harder time with Runjhuns behaviour. She leaves Guddu but still wants her wifely rights and respect? Just because her amma is still living at Guddus place she thinks that she can decides what is done in that house or not?
I dont like how amma and Runjhun makes differen between their family ie Pandeys and others. Runjhun is not generous. She is only generous to her mama mami. She agreed to let Neelu stay since she had already met Neelu and got a picture of her as being a different person then she thought.
I have a hard time with that Runjhun leaves Guddu and then has the guts to go and say to Neelu to keep away from Guddu since he is her husband? And that it is Neelu who is tempting Guddu?
No I dont like Runjhuns behaviour. As a human she should have stood by her husband about Neelu staying when her mama mami were apposing him. But she did not.
Lets see where all this takes us.
And it is just my opinion for just now it may change. But you may disagree with me.
Rujhun has never left Guddu. She went to stay a time with her family. Even if they had no house and were bad people, it was her natural right to see them. People have relatives in jail for the most horrible crimes and the state still gives them the right to visit them. Guddu had no right to stop her from seeing them. He abused his rights as a husband. He can be all modern and have a modern friendship with a girl and sleep on her bed, while Runhjun should have blindly obeyed her husband like we're living in the Middle Age! I don't think so!
They had a fight and she went to live with her relatives! This is something that happens in almost every marriage when the couple is still very young. This doesn't mean that it is the end of their marriage and more than anything didn't give Guddu the right to bring an other woman in their house and let her in their matrimonial bedroom or to let her to use his wife's cloths. Ask any married woman and she will tell you that she will feel insulted if her husband does what Guddu did to Runhjun after just one fight! There will probably be other fights in their live, but this doesn't mean that every time that this is happening, he will have the right to go to bars and see dancing girls!
Runhjun was gone only for two days while she constantly called him and even came back to take care of him! And only after two days, he went to a bar! He acted like a spoiled child and blew out of proportion a loneliness that it was only in his head.
Edit: About Neelu, Runhju had all the right to go and tell Neelu those things! People may not like to hear this, but in realty there are many married men who ruined their married life because of dancers, they spend their money there while maybe at home his children don't have enough food. The prisons are full of criminals who say the same story: our father left me and my mother for an other woman, we had no money so I started to steal, one thing lead to an other and here I am!
Edited by etna - 12 November 2011 at 7:44am